MET & RRR Journey Team: “Victim Mentality” Changed

Partners I want to thank you because I have seen a trend repeating itself over and over again. I saw this trend in myself when I did the courses and now I see it in many of the women who are now doing the courses. What I have seen happen is that when I came to this ministry I had a “victim mentality” but doing the courses that mentality changed when I realized the part that I had played in the breakdown of my marriage, that in actual fact I was not a victim but instead had “broken down my house with my own hands”. Many of our students acknowledge this and it is only due to the Word that we are changed.

“For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart.” Hebrews 4:12

Due to your giving women are fed the Word of God and are changed!

Here are a few Praise Reports within my Ministry

This Praise Report is from a very new student on Course 1 Day 1.

Dear Lord, I thank you for this ministry, Lord I believe in my heart that you led me here. God I was at my wits end with my marriage and I felt like I couldn’t go on any further, but God you showed me differently. I thank you for not allowing me to give up when I wanted to. You know deep down God that I was desiring for a relationship with you and that I didn’t want to give up. Lord, I pray that you give me wisdom regarding what I have read. God, I ask that you begin to show me your unconditional love. Teach me oh God how to love like you.

Lord, I ask that you allow me to open up my heart every time I come before you and to make sure that I check my motives each time. Lord, you know how bad I want my marriage to work, but I ask that you continue to allow me to focus more on you and less on my situation. God, I ask that you begin to fill me with your everlasting love. Fill me oh God with your holy spirit. Begin to deal with me, God. Continue to show me and God I ask that in doing so you help me to accept whatever it is and to get it right with whomever if need be. Oh God, I ask that you mold and shape me into that mother for all 5 of all kids and help me to love and treat my two stepdaughters as my own.

God, I ask that there be no differences between either one of them and when people look at us they won’t be able to tell that they aren’t my biological children because of the love and bond that we have and God I praise and thank you in advance Lord. Lord, I thank you in advance for my restoration. God, I thank and praise you in advance for my victory, and for my peace. Lord, I know you will do it. There isn’t anything too hard for you. God, I thank you for the things that have transpired in my life and in my marriage. I thank you because it’s molding me into that woman of God you want me to be. I thank you in advance for making me that wife God. Lord teach me how to be submissive to my husband as Sarah was to Abraham. God, I thank you and Lord God I pray these things in your son name oh God. Continue to brittle my tongue God, continue to put a muzzle on my mouth oh God and Lord I thank you and pray these things in your son Jesus name Amen!

Dear Partners. I would like to thank you for sowing into our MET and RJ Ministries. You are not only sowing your good seed into the Restoration of Marriages but MOST importantly you are sowing into the lives of women who become healed in many other areas of their lives.

Reconciliation between parents, siblings, co-workers but to name a few. Throughout my RJ I always felt good about sowing into a Ministry that made a difference in my life and I am sure that that has been your motivation as well as a Partner!

Here’s What’s New!

I want to thank my wonderful HH. Speaking to our Director of Operations here at RMI we both marveled at how much what we used to do on a daily basis in our previous jobs has changed compared to working here at RMI. We both worked extensively on excel but here at RMI it is so very different, none of the programmes except for emailing did we use before. I want to thank and give Praise to my HH for each and every breakthrough I achieved whenever I had to learn something new or do something new. He never failed me, answering and giving me wisdom whenever I had a task to do. With His help I have always been able to complete a new task or submit what was required of me on time :))

My Love, you know everything and you knew how much working for this Ministry would mean to me, You knew this job would be the perfect fit for me and my personality, talents and prior experience. And that what I had learnt and done in previous jobs would prepare me for this.

Previously I was studying towards a degree in Accounting but I never finished it. I realized later on that to become an Accountant was not really what I was called to do… But He knew and worked out my life so perfectly to bring me to a place doing something I know I do well and for His Kingdom too!! How wonderful is that? :))

Do you feel unworthy or incapable of being used by God to minister? Trust me He can use you by just letting Him know you are willing. 2 Timothy 2:20-22, “Now in a large house there are not only gold and silver vessels, but also vessels of wood and of earthenware, and some to honor and some to dishonor. Therefore, if anyone cleanses himself from these things, he will be a vessel for honor, sanctified, useful to the Master, prepared for every good work. Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, with those who call on the Lord from a pure heart.

We never go through a struggle for no reason. It is always to glorify the Lord. So if you are feeling that you are going through your marriage struggle because the Lord has a greater purpose then know that He does. Allow Him to write the chapters of your life by making yourself available knowing that He will lead and guide you. All things work together for those that love the Lord and are called according to His purposes. ALL things work together for your good!!

~ Atarah in South Africa

Marriage Evaluation and Restoration Journey Team