wLL 87 “Love Languages”

So many times I expected somebody else to supply my needs, whereas I was bankrupt so how could I even expect from others not to be bankrupt. So this promise really stood out today: “And my GOD shall supply ALL your needs (not me or you) according to His riches in glory…” (Philippians 4:19). He, Himself (not my work colleagues, not my boss, not my friends , not my parents, not my children) will supply ALL my needs, not just some of my needs…

This living lesson was again proof that the Abundant Life is a life with our Beloved Lord. For so many years I thought an abundant life would be to get my spouse back and to live with a beautiful car and in a beautiful house with our kids, happily ever after, but for me that now represents emptiness when He isn’t the main reason for the blessings and please don’t get me wrong, I totally believe our precious Beloved Lord wants to bless us, but a real true abundant life is a life with Him, when only He matters. I realize now He took the burden of my shoulders to try and figure out what is the next one’s love language, because He is the whole meaning of Love and if I don’t have enough of Him I can’t overflow.

I really want to encourage woman to stop trying to figure out what is their spouse’s love language (because maybe you will get him back when you figured that out and that I am saying with so much love, because that is what I did and what I thought), spend that time with our precious Beloved Lord, Who is the whole meaning of Love.

~Janine