| Name: |
| Amber |
| Country: |
| Canada |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Just started the book. Learned in the book |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| Standing for the 2nd time . Not truly restored the first time 1.5 years ago . 20 years married . Was a high conflict marriage . Since he’s been back he’s been solely focused on me meeting all his needs , that I am obviously unable to do . But now says he doesn’t love me anymore , we’re too different , there’s no connection |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Lord , you know his heart . It’s is so hardened towards me and he has lost his relationship with you God . I did the work last time Lord , I poured into changing myself for the better and to be a loving wife . I gave my heart and soul into this marriage the last 2 years. Please help him to forgive me Lord , empty the bitterness and resentment out of him . I’m so dedicated Lord . I’m broken . I need you . Lord guide him to the right things , the things of you . You said “ what God has joined together , let no man separate “. Matt 19:6 |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Abused or molested as a child. |
| Are you interested in learning how you can help other women who are in marriage crisis as a Marriage Minister ? CLICK on the IMAGE that describes you right now. |
| Yes, maybe in the future . Please send me the information to pray about it. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Publicly on Encouraging Women. Sample |
Before commenting, remember to:
- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- Once we see a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride, we will reply to her email and CLOSE this session. Thank you!!
Should you want to further encourage her, not overwhelm or cause confusion, we encourage you to reply beneath the first 3 MM and confirm what that MM is saying, “Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1
Dear precious Amber, I am so sorry for what you went through as child and for all the hurt you are going through now. I want to encourage you to please do the following course and to journal, because all this will be life changing: He healed me – https://loveatlast.org/hhm/
I too struggled with depression, but the moment I started meditating on the word of God daily, our wonderful Lord started healing me and I know and believe He is going to heal you too of all the hurt: “For the word of God is alive and active. Sharper than any double-edged sword, it penetrates even to dividing soul and spirit, joints and marrow; it judges the thoughts and attitudes of the heart.” H4:12 – https://biblehub.com/hebrews/4-12.htm
Dear precious Amber, I also want to encourage you to visit our crisis corner – https://hopeatlast.com/crisis-corner/ and our wonderful Lord will do all the work in your husband, while you take His hand and let Him lead you. (And my husband too had a hardened heart, but it was the Lord who changed everything and I experienced a restored marriage.)
“The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD, like the rivers of water; He turns it wherever He wishes.” – https://biblehub.com/proverbs/21-1.htm
I’m so sorry to hear that you’re going through this. I have felt this brokenness before. It sounds like you’re in a lot of pain and I know how heartbreaking it can be. It sounds like you’ve done everything you can to save your marriage but now it’s best to let go and give your burdens to God and let Him take over.
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/
He can heal any broken heart and I encourage you to trust that God will work in your husbands heart.
His Word also says:”He is our protection and our strength, He always helps in times of trouble. So, we will not be afraid if the earth shakes, or if the mountains fall into the sea. We will not fear even if the oceans roar and foam, or if the mountains shake at the raging sea.” Ps46ICB
I urge you to start our courses https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/, pour your heart into your lesson forms and be sure to journal. 💕
“With people this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” M19:26
“My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge..” Hosea 4:6
Dear Amber, a lot of us came here to seek the Lord and seek His wisdom because we lack in knowledge on how to build our house on His words (the rock). During this process, we all have to learn how to rest in Him because we realize only He can bring about changes and a lot of times the changes start with us first.
“The king’s heart is in the hand of the LORD, as the rivers of water: he turneth it whithersoever he will.” Proverbs 21:1
It must be confusing to go through another separation but would you trust the Lord to deliver you FOR GOOD this time? I hope this chapter will help you understand why this crisis happened in the first place –
https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-2-chapter-2-first-love/
At last, I want to encourage you with this verse – “For I the Lord thy God will hold thy right hand, saying unto thee, Fear not; I will help thee.” Isaiah 41:13
querida Ambar, comprendo el dolor por el cuál estás atravesando, he pasado por ahí, pero déjame decirte que aún cuando tu e.t tengo este comportamiento tú puedes tener ” la paz que sobrepasa todo entendimiento” echando sobre nuestro amado señor tus cargas y si es necesario descansar en sus brazos,” bajo la sombra de sus alas” es un buen lugar para estar.
busca al señor con todo tu corazón, y El cambiará primero tú corazón y seguramente cuando haya finalizado la obra en ti, cambiará a tú esposo terrenal.
en los cursos que acá arriba mencionan, ( no supe copiar el link) encontrarás un mapa, deja que Él te guíe mientras los haces es un mapa de un viaje al que Él te llevará, pero Vale la pena.
Dear Ambar, I understand the pain you are going through, I have been there, but let me tell you that even when you have this behavior you can have “the peace that passes all understanding” by casting your burdens on our beloved Lord and if necessary resting in his arms,” under the shadow of his wings” is a good place to be.
He seeks the Lord with all your heart, and He will first change your heart and surely when he has finished the work in you, he will change your earthly husband.
In the courses mentioned above (I didn’t know how to copy the link) you will find a map, let Him guide you while you do them, it is a map of a journey that He will take you on, but it is worth it.
https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/