Looking for Answers in the Wrong Places

ย โ™• Today's Promise: โ€œShow me the right path, O Lord; point out the road for me to follow. Lead me by your truth and teach me, for you are the God who saves me. All day long I put my hope in you.โ€ Psalm 25: 4-5

~ Datyah in South Africa

โ˜Š Thank You PRAISE

Dear partners of this God sent ministry. I don't know where I would have been if it wasn't for the ministry. Thank you for your obedience to God and helping me to get on the right path. To become closer and closer to the Lord, my HH (Heavenly Husband). Praise you and Glory to God.

I bought the book [How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage] online and have referred back to it so many times. What I appreciated was that when I was in so much despair and hopelessness, the book gave me structured guidance back to the Bible and back into the arms of the Lord. I had hope again and wasn't falling around looking for answers in the wrong places. I ended up at the right place, with God being my Counselor, Protector and Lover.

I would definitely recommend the books [By the Word of Their Testimony]. I bought two books and when I get paid again, I would like to buy more. It is absolute confirmation of God's Will. I also learn from other women's stories and how God is true to His Promises, as long as we follow His principles. A must read.

My husband said he does not love me anymore and that we should get divorced. He said we got married too soon and we started with children straight away and also went into ministry too early into our marriage. The last 4 years were difficult for both of us, my brother committed suicide, both my EH's (earthly husband) parents passed away within 3 months, my dad passed away last year October 2020. I also had 2 miscarriages 10 years ago which I just swept under the carpet. But we both went on bravely to the outside world, but in our marriage we did not support each other. I became very needy, contentious, argumentative, jealous and many more horrible things. This just added to my EH's burdens.

In April over the Easter weekend we had a huge fallout and hurtful things were said to each other. That is when my EH (earthly husband) said he does not want to be married to me anymore. I begged and pleaded and persuaded him to not leave me. He said OK, but in June he said he wanted to get divorced, his love for me died. We told our children. My world just fell apart and I could not handle it all. I went on many marriage websites, until I googled married restorations. That is when God guided me to RMI. I immediately started the first FREE course. I also bought God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage and Wise Women books. As soon as I started the course I had hope and faith. God showed me that I was a contentious and selfish woman. But most importantly I found solace and love in the arms of my Beloved Lord. I lost a lot of weight and my countenance changed. God gave me a quiet and gentle spirit and peace that surpasses all understanding. I am not afraid to be alone anymore and the relief to let go is wonderful. We still live in the same house, although we live in separate rooms. My husband cannot go ahead with divorce proceedings because of many logistical problems. Praise the Lord! We are in limbo at the moment, but I have the Lord and He is all I need. I've learnt to be content and blessed that I am still in my house. Thank You Lord.

Dear Bride, long before my marriage fell apart I longed for peace. I knew I was not in a good place, marriage and in general. It took this crisis in my life to find my First Love again. You will find the hope again. But most importantly the restoration will start with you, before your marriage is restored. The Lord is waiting for You. To love you and to give you peace. Take it. Don't give up. It is worth it.

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