The day I am going to tell you about is the hardest day of my RJ. I have so much to share with you brides, but I will try to keep this praise short so that you won’t get bored.
So to give you some background, my EH and I were involved in my father’s business when we were together. There is an exhibition every February related to our business that we always participated in. As usual, we participated this time also. My staff invited my husband to visit because they always wanted us to be together as according to them we were the best couple they have ever seen. So, he came to this event. before this for some days my HH kept in my mind that I have to ask forgiveness from my EH for not being a good wife. So I did ask my husband for forgiveness and also I told him to ask for forgiveness from his parents on my behalf. Then he told me that I don’t want to ask for forgiveness and told me that he is involved with a woman. I have to tell you that even though my husband had several relationships with OWs He never removed me from his heart and always treated me tenderly. He hugs me and kisses me. PTL for keeping us closer even though we were separated. To be honest this statement blew me but my HH gave me the strength to stay calm he prepared me for this (I‘ve been on fast as my HH lead me to it). but now my EH keeps his distance from me, and I don’t try to interfere. I told him that I love him bit I am not possessive of him and I wanted him to be happy and he deserves to be happy. I sensed that this response blew him
And then after the exhibition, my staff requested him to reunite with me. And my EH explained to them how loathing I am in a way that no one could bear listening. My staff was shocked by the words he used. I just kept silent looking down. And at the end, I told them that I was the one who did wrong and cause this separation. And you know what happened next. He told that I did nothing wrong and I am a person like a goddess and he would revere me if he could. So brides this is a clear testimony of the result of not resisting evil, not defending oneself, and having a humble spirit. I am no one to do any of these things this is my HL’s (Heavenly Love) presence, leading, and protection in my life. All the praise should go to my heavenly father and Heavenly Husband. So brides listen to your HH’s leading, trust Him and Rest in Him.
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It is wonderful that you were able to humble yourself and see the blessing He had for you. He does everything in His time and fulfills our desires when we desire Him above all else. 🙂
Dear Elza, I know how difficult it is to hear from your husband mouth that there is another woman in their life because that happened to me as well the day he decided to leave home, but as you said only your HL is the one who is giving you the wisdom to stay quiet and with a gentle spirit. When He starts to see this in our hearts He is faithful to show us his grace and avoid us going through shame.
Oh wow Elza, how nice that your Husband has given you that humble spirit. I remember when I was facing those kinds of trials where my husband would say nasty things about me or talk down to me and my Husband would sweetly help me to stay humble from the heart, because sometimes, I must confess that I humbled myself externally but my heart was proud and that is why everything was worse and my husband’s treatment was harsher, my Husband says well that the fall comes with pride; but when He put that humble spirit in me, it just flowed in a beautiful and natural way and my husband’s heart softened towards me, also I think He gave me a double blessing because He was changing me and also healing the relationship little by little bit.
Thank you for sharing dear!
Dear Elza, it happened to me like you, when I recognized in front of everyone that I had made a mistake in my marriage, not being a Wise woman, I could watch my ex-husband say at the same time that this was not true, because I was an excellent wife and an excellent mother. I praise the Lord for helping us to be humble and recognize our mistakes.
What a beautiful testimony dear Elza. To stay quiet and humble ( also in the heart, not just externally) specially when our EH say nasty things about/to us is the key that opens the blessings of the Lord in our lives.
Thank you for sharing ❤