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I don't want my husband to know about your ministry, so I can't tithe.
I can't pay my bills, so I can't tithe.
I don't make enough money, so I can't tithe.
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Well, recently I stopped another source of income in our left that God gave me a conviction on to cut it off as the income was not an honest income. However, I’m in huge debt and my husband and I still share an account together for our funds. He told me it’s mine to have however it’s in our joint account and I haven’t told him that I cut off my other income.
Please let us know what your greatest FEAR is or FEARS are that prevents you from tithing because we want to stand on either side of you and hold up your hands in victory. *
I have no doubt in my mind that I will tithe however I’m not sure if I should tell me husband that I cut off my other source of income while I’m in debt. He’s helping pay half my car payment and paying the insurance. I feel like if I tell him he might feel pressure and more guilty about the entire situation that we’re going through and plus my debt. I feel it may run him away.
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I want to know if I should tell him if I cut that income off. If I don’t tell him I will have to dip in the savings we have (even though it mine sort of, that he gave me prior to separation). But I know he’s going to ask “why are you taking that much money of the savings, etc). I have income so I will tithe with that however paying my other bills I will have to dip into our joint account.
When I tithe I should... *
tithe to my storehouse, where I am spiritually fed first before attempting to pay my bills or I will not have enough to pay my bills.
Are you still being stolen from? Does the devourer still have permission to steal everything and anything from you because... *
I am not sure what it means to tithe.
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Dear Jasmine, after speaking to the Lord (my Heavenly Husband) He led me to share some lessons with you that I linked below. I started tithing after the divorce, I lost everything and had NO income, only the money my fh paid into my account for groceries. I decided to take the first step of obedience and started to tithe from that, and slowly my HH started to open more opportunities to receive income. Since then I saw His provision and protection in all areas of my life, not only financially. It changed me whole journey. He opened the Windows of Heaven for me.
Please Seek God and read through the lessons below and let Him guide you and give your situation to Him because He is the only one who can give you the answers you need:
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d12-husbands-vs-tithing-tithing-vs-offerings/
https://hopeatlast.com/get-help-to-hurdles-over-your-fears-with-testimonies-milestones/milestone-1-tithe/
Hi Jasmine please be sure to read the links of the lessons Adina has shared with you. Like you l also had many questions concerning tithing especially at the time l was separated. Reading these lessons help to answer many if the questions l had as well 🙏 as well as Seeking God and asking Him if l still was not sure. It takes a huge step of faith to tithe on any income you receive. Like in my case at the time of my separation l started tithing on the income l received from my my regular job and the income l received from sales i made selling beauty products and just recently l realised that l should have been tithing on the grocery money my eh was giving me for many years that l didnt tithe on but started recently.
At the time of my separation and divorce l had myself and my 5 year old daughter to take care of and this included keeping a roof over our heads, food and many other things.. When l started tithing l started seeing how my worries started turning around to joy and praise as our needs were being met and its only gotten better and l see the Lords provision in all areas and constantly. These days l cannot imagine not tithing in fact im more scared to not tithe…
Tithing is the one place where the Lord says ‘test me and see’. He will open the windows of heaven and pour out so much blessings over you in ways your cannot fathom.
Dear precious Jasmine, I want to encourage you with my testimony. I was so scared to start to tithe, because being a single parent, paying all the debts on my own I didn’t know how I was going to pay my tithe. I am so so grateful my Darling Husband didn’t just leave me not to pay and He said I must immediately start tithing, it was November 2022. I still bargained with Him and said I will pay when I get my bonus end of January, because then I can put the rest of the money away and keep it in a account for my tithe every month (well that was my plan). But the Lord reminded me of the verse:
But a poor widow came and put in two very small copper coins, worth only a few cents. Calling his disciples to him, Jesus said, “Truly I tell you, this poor widow has put more into the treasury than all the others. They all gave out of their wealth; but she, out of her poverty, put in everything—all she had to live on.” M12:42-44 – https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Mark+12%3A42-44&version=NIV
She gave out poverty and that I was not to wait until I had more and that was when I took a step of faith. I didn’t know how I was going to do it, BUT my Darling knew and He has been providing for me every month and my debts didn’t become more, they became less. And I even see the windows of Heaven are open over my kids too.
https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d19-chapter-15-opening-the-windows-of-heaven/
Dear Jasmine, I like other brides, have to overcome the fear of tithing because it’s natural to think if I could provide for myself and the children once I start tithing. I would love for you to also journal the following lesson –
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d10-assurance-protection/
For me, I overcame the hurdle by determining to stop the enemies from stealing from me and that’s means faithfully tithing. Many brides who started tithing have seen their situation turn around for the better. It’s going to take faith. Would you trust Him? “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Matthew 6:33
querida Jasmine, entiendo tu preocupación, también pasé por ello aunque con circunstancias diferentes.
sea lo primero decirte que no habrá nada mejor que pueda “aconsejarte” que no sea:”busca a tu Esposo Celestial”, pregúntale a Él que debes hacer, ayuna si es necesario, derrama tu corazón a Él y él te responderá, solo ahí deberás moverte sin dudar hacia donde Él te dirija.
sin embargo quiero compartirte algo: después de tener muchos miedos y dudas, incluso prejuicios sobre diezmar, mi amado me había guiado a diezmar varias veces y a pensar en hacerlo, pero yo simplemente tenía muchas excusas que creía eran válidas. pero un día, Él comenzó a guiarme e inquietarme, entonces lo decidí, tome el 10% de un pequeño ingreso y lo hice, me sentí tan feliz y relajada, y lo que pasó al día siguiente fue más de lo que podía esperar o imaginar: (esto lo comparto en un T.A pero no tengo el enlace) a día siguiente de diezmar al ministerio o talvez pasaron otros 2 o 3 días, me llamaron de la clínica en la que habían atendido a mi pequeña hija que estuvo hospitalizada y había pagado una cantidad de dinero mayor a medio salario mínimo, y me informaron que nos devolverían el dinero, yo pregunté porque pero dentro de mi sabía porque estaba pasando eso ” pruebame en esto a ver si no te abro las ventanas del cielo dice el señor” y me informaron que habíamos Sido seleccionados por la clínica para hacer devolucion, que era algo que hacían a veces y fuí seleccionada.
mi corazón cantó de alegría, no solo por el dinero sino por ver la fidelidad de Dios, mi señor.
consultanos con El y muévete cuando lo escuches.
Dear Jasmine, I understand your concern, I also went through it although with different circumstances.
Let me first tell you that there will be nothing better that I can “advise” you other than: “seek your Heavenly Husband”, ask Him what you should do, fast if necessary, pour out your heart to Him and He will answer you, only there You must move without hesitation where He directs you.
However, I want to share something with you: after having many fears and doubts, even prejudices about tithing, my beloved had guided me to tithe several times and to think about doing it, but I simply had many excuses that I believed were valid. But one day, He started to guide me and worry me, so I decided, I took 10% of a small income and I did it, I felt so happy and relaxed, and what happened the next day was more than I could have expected or imagined. : (I share this in a T.A but I don’t have the link) the day after tithing to the ministry or maybe another 2 or 3 days passed, they called me from the clinic where they had treated my little daughter who was hospitalized and had paid an amount of money greater than half the minimum wage, and they informed me that they would return the money to us, I asked why but deep inside I knew why this was happening “try me on this to see if I will not open the windows of heaven for you says the Lord” and They informed me that we had been selected by the clinic to make returns, which was something they did sometimes and I was selected.
My heart sang with joy, not only for the money but for seeing the faithfulness of God, my Lord.
Consult with Him and move when you hear Him.
Dear Jasmine, thank you for sharing your heart, and this is a great opportunity to share what God has taught me about Tithing. Firstly, I would like to introduce to you the Word of God in ‘Malachi 3 verse 10’. He said, Bring the whole tithe into the storehouse, that there may be food in my house. Test me in this,” says the Lord Almighty, “and see if I will not throw open the floodgates of heaven and pour out so much blessing that there will not be room enough to store it.
I encourage you sister to do what God has said in His Word. I experienced all the blessings and his love in my life the moment I put Him to the test. And I cannot count the blessings and miracles He has done in my life and family. All I have to do is act on my faith, take out the full amount of what belongs to God and give it to the church, where I have been fed by the Word of God. I promised You If you do what was he commanded. He will do and give what you desire.
The house that He is talking about is you and me, His Spiritual House, which needs to be nourished with His Living
Word. There are so many, He wants to be given to us, the riches of Heaven.
Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us – Ephesian 3:20.
Dear Koleti, that you for sharing your heart and what our Beloved taught you about tithing and how it changed your life. Although it might be scary at first, taking the first step in obedience changes our lives and truly opens the windows of heaven, in every aspect of our lives.
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