I used to beg for a special day, now I have everlasting joyful days with Him

So last month was Valentine's Day in Brazil and I have to confess that I have always loved this date and for many years I put myself in a role of needing attention and love, begging for "a special day".

But, after I found my Beloved Heavenly Husband, I stopped carrying the burden of worrying about what would happen on that day! My heart was slowly putting itself in the right place and on Valentine's Day, I always think about what He and I can do together.

This past Valentine's Day, He planned it Himself, in a way I never imagined - yes, He took me on a trip, it was a work trip, but it was just the two of us for three days.

He took me to dinner, I was able to find a store with incredible prices and I bought a beautiful pair of pants! And the icing on the cake was when I arrived at the office, and a colleague gave me a beautiful box with cake, bread, jam, something wonderful that left me so surprised and I even got a scented candle in all wrapped in a beautiful package! My Valentine's Day gift arrived in a totally unexpected way!

He thought of everything and I didn't have to do anything! I just had to enjoy these moments and the opportunities to be loved and pampered by Him!

Ladies, I confess that it took me a while to realize what He was doing for me, to realize the details and delicacies that were surrounding me during the entire time of these three days that He took care of me and made me see how much I am loved and desired.

And I don't want to stop realizing this, because I know that many times, we fall into the temptation of expecting from men, our husbands, partners, ex-husbands, what they don't have and therefore, they will never be able to fulfill our needs, as our Beloved can and wants to fulfill them.

For a long time I resented this, today it is no longer like that, thanks to Him πŸ™Œ And thanks to all the testimonies of special women, like you who are reading now! Yes! Women who feel loved by the One who gave His own life for them! That's why you no longer need to suffer or desire the love of another man.

And we are not resentful about it! In fact, we are open to love even those who are "unlovable", because we have true Love that overflows from our hearts - there is no longer any lack, in fact our measure is repressed, shaken, overflowing, we can give generously! Because we have everything we need, we lack nothing, because He is our Love and Good Shepherd❣️

That's why, every Valentine's Day, what I most desire is to renew my desire to live by His side, that my heart does not yearn for anyone else - even if I'm married, that I run into His arms and hold on and never let Him go!

Never again will you be called β€œThe Forsaken City” or β€œThe Desolate Land.” Your new name will be β€œThe City of God’s Delight” and β€œThe Bride of God,” for the LORD delights in you and will claim you as his bride. I624

18 thoughts on “I used to beg for a special day, now I have everlasting joyful days with Him”

  1. Wow Paula, this is a beautiful praise!
    “you no longer need to suffer or desire the love of another man. And we are not resentful about it! In fact, we are open to love even those who are “unlovable”, because we have true Love that overflows from our hearts – there is no longer any lack, in fact our measure is repressed, shaken, overflowing, we can give generously! Because we have everything we need, we lack nothing, because He is our Love and Good Shepherd❣️”
    This touched my heart! This is exactly where we need to be! Thank you

    1. Yes Ruby! Let’s run to Him Who longs to embrace us❣️

  2. Gracias Paula, realmente necesitaba estas palabras. No necesitamos a nadie mas que al SeΓ±or, quien sabe lo que necesitamos y solo El nos da amor, cuidado, compaΓ±ia.
    Que el Nombre de Nuestro Amado, permanezca por siempre, Bendito sea EL, quien nos ha llamado y no nos dejara.
    ~~~
    Thank you Paula, I really needed these words. We don’t need anyone but the Lord, who knows what we need and only He gives us love, care, company.
    May the Name of Our Beloved remain forever, Blessed be HE, who has called us and will not leave us.

    1. Es verdad Liza! “Dios mismo quien ha dicho: Nunca te abandonarΓ©; jamΓ‘s te dejarΓ© solo.” H135 ❣️
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      It’s so true, Liza! “God has said, β€œNever will I leave you; never will I forsake you H135❣️

  3. Quel belle eloge. Je suis eblouie ce qu’il a fait pour la Saint-valentin.
    Quand on est sous ce joug de son amour on ne vague on voyage… On ne veut rien d’autre que de l’aimer…
    ~~~
    Thank you Paula, I really needed these words. We don’t need anyone but the Lord, who knows what we need and only He gives us love, care, company.
    May the Name of Our Beloved remain forever, Blessed be HE, who has called us and will not leave us.

    1. Oui, il m’a vraiment surpris ! Je n’aurais jamais pu imaginer ce qu’Il ​​avait prΓ©parΓ© pour moi, pour nous deux ! πŸ’ž
      _______
      Thank you Kateleen, for reminding me that I could also travel, because I was lovesick – and that’s the way I want to remain❣️

  4. Dear Paula,

    thank you for sharing with us what a wonderful time you had with your Heavenly Husband. Valentine’s Day here in my country is paid less and less attention. Which is an enlightenment for me as a romantic. That doesn’t change the fact that sometimes in my heart I still long to spend the day with someone special. And now we as bride have that Special one in our lives.

    You certainly make a point that we often don’t realize what He does for us. In my opinion, I often forget that everything I have, get and can do comes from Him. That is His love for me.

    It’s not Valentine’s Day though
    I am currently waiting for my brother to come and help me assemble two shelves for the washing machine and dryer. A blessing from my Heavenly Husband. It will be a fun day because my brother and I get along well. Another way He pampered me with.

    1. I am so glad you are about to have a special day!! It’s so wonderful to know how He takes care of us through other person! Have a very happy day, my dear ❣️

  5. Thank you for sharing, it is praises like these that remind me to accept His spoiling in whatever shape it comes in. From whoever and see it ultimately as that, a special gift from our Love. how precious and I’m so happy you got to experience that special trip together!

    1. Yes, dear Rasa, sometimes it’s hard to allow to be spoiled, but He always finds a way, because He longs to be gracious to us – How lucky we are!❀️‍πŸ”₯

  6. This so beautiful how our Darling Lord pampered you precious Paula, I just love what He does and how He has the way to really let us feel special. And what a beautiful promise, the Lord gave it to me years ago when my heart was so very very sore and how wonderful I am His bride.

    1. I also love this promise and it was a precious gift for this special day ❀️‍πŸ”₯

  7. Thank you for the reminder to enjoy the moments and the opportunities to be loved and pampered by Him, Paula. Sometimes we don’t realize what He is doing for us, but everything good comes from our Beloved. πŸ’•

    1. Yes, this so so true, Hope! I have to pay attention to His amazing way of loving me ❀️‍πŸ”₯

  8. Thank you for sharing, Paula. I started to love these special days when I found True Everlasting Love that do not ever disappoint! And best of all, we can experience the love of our Beloved each and every day!

    1. Exactly Adina ❀️‍πŸ”₯ This is so true, how He wants to be with you – may our hearts long for Him too!

  9. Ah dear Paula, it is this Love that I never tire of talking about that I have now, a sincere, unique, incomparable Love, and that if we have It, we have everything, because It is what I need to live a life of complete happiness.πŸ’“
    Thank you for sharing your praise.

  10. May we live with Him now and forevermore ❀️‍πŸ”₯

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