Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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| Country: |
| USA |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| online search |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I was not a very good wife at times. I had affairs, cheated on spouse and then moved out. I moved back after being out of the home for approximately 18 months. I returned home, but by then my husband was bitter and had begun another relationship. He is currently living w/the woman and has been so for over 1 year. He just started coming around to see the children but does not seem (and has said) that he has no desire to have a relationship with me. We are still legally married and he still pays expenses here in the home where my children and I still live. I am grateful for that! |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| God, I am completely to blame for the way things are right now. My children and extended family are in turmoil b/c of my actions and those of my husband. I'm weary and at times angry, I need you to keep me from becoming angry at him and the other woman. Im angry...then weary....then sad....then ashamed.....then afraid..... I cannot bear any more of this situation. Im afraid that my husband has grown too deeply involved with this other woman that he may never come back. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Fallen into adultery, need help. |
| No, I am not in the position to help anyone at the moment. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Publicly on Encouraging Women. Sample |
Dear, I know some of what you are going through. I was once in your shoes of being married but my husband living with the OW. We have been restored 2x. The first time He said he loved me but wasn’t “in love” with me anymore and left, the second time I told him to leave. There was another woman both times. I was full of pain, sadness & bitterness. It’s hard but his Word does say that He hates divorce. He has all the control and with Him ALL things are possible.
Only He knows what is best for you. I encourage you to keep praying and seeking Him. He will give you the strength and peace you need to get through this difficult time. Most of the time God takes our loved ones away for a while to bring us closer to Him. He wants to be first in your life. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-2-chapter-2-first-love/ He is a God of restoration, and I know that He can heal your marriage. I encourage you to continue to read His word, pray and trust in Him.
Before my restoration the chapter from the Wise Woman Book helped me tremendously. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ and chapters from the WW are in audio if you need to listen while driving, as I enjoyed.
Also if you haven’t already started please do the courses and journal, as they will help renew your mind. https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d16-dealing-with-adultery/
bien aimée, sache que notre Seigneur est bon et misericordieux il pardon tout ce qu’on confesse.
Tu as un coeur brisé et tu crois que ta situation est impossible, n’ecoute pas les mensonges du Diable, car Rien n’ est impossible pour notre Mari Celeste, il t’aime et aime ta famille.cherche le , fais de lui tes delices, il te donnera tout ce que ton coeur desir.❤
Beloved, know that our Lord is good and merciful, He forgives all that is confessed.
You are broken-hearted and you believe that your situation is impossible, do not listen to the lies of the enemy, for nothing is impossible for our Heavenly Husband, he loves you and your family. ❤
Thank you dear Elise for having the heart to help others through your comments. If you sense that you are on this journey to help others (https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d26-sowing-reaping/), please visit our online university, RMIOU.com.
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Dear Bride, please know that you have a forgiving God. ” If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.” 1 John 1:9 This is the time to focus on the Lord. “Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.” James 4:8
I am glad that you have read the restoration book. Maybe it’s time for you to start journaling the lessons on RMI. Many of us find journaling helping us pour out our hearts to the Lord and rest in Him –
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/
https://hopeatlast.com/c1/spectator/
For me personally, trusting in Him takes time so I encourage you to take the time and let Him transform you. “Commit your way to the LORD; trust in him and he will do this…” Psalm 37:5
Dear bride you are at the right place and God already saw heart, for a broken Spirit and a contrite heart, these He will not despise Psalm 51:17.
Just trust Him and Him alone, be in your prayer closet often talking to Him.
And remember that all things work together for good, including the bad
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