💔MM: I couldn’t seem to let go in US

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Country:
United States
What language do you speak?
English
I'm here:
Seeking restoration for my marriage.
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation.
Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me.
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?"
No
How did you find our ministry?
Stephanie
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship?
Following infidelity on my husbands part I couldn’t seem to let go of what he did. So I filed for separation. This hurt him and even though GOD has changed my heart to return to my marriage my husband isn’t in the same space bc I did that. He also says I have an issue with control and allowing him to lead. But I feel anytime I have allowed him to it ends bad
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him.
Heavenly Father you have changed my heart and told me to stand in this marriage. At times I don’t understand why you changed mine and hardened his, but I trust you. I need you I don’t know how to fight this fight.
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4 thoughts on “💔MM: I couldn’t seem to let go in US”

  1. Dear Bride, thank you for sharing. As you seek the Lord in this journey, I want to encourage you to know how good God is. “The LORD is merciful and gracious, Slow to anger, and abounding in mercy.” Psalm 103:8
    On the contrary, “the thief does not come except to steal, and to kill, and to destroy. I have come that they may have life, and that they may have it more abundantly.” John 10:10
    Please consider first reading the restoration book and moving onto journal the free lessons on RMI. All these materials have helped me realize what I need to work on in myself as I used to just point fingers at others for things that happened.
    https://hopeatlast.com/c2/
    Letting go is not easy but keep in mind that you are in fact surrendering it to the Lord. “Commit your way to the LORD, Trust also in Him, And He shall bring it to pass.” Psalm 37:5

  2. Dear Bride,

    I am sorry to hear about the pain you are experiencing. I too experienced my EH seeing someone else while we were separated. Thankfully, I found the RYM book and used my time to get to know my HH. He was able to get me through some extremely challenging times and now I have a restored marriage. I would encourage you to read the RYM book and begin journaling. But even more importantly I would say to really spend time speaking to your HH and letting Him know everything on your mind. His Word will heal your heart and spending time with Him will fill your heart with love. Here is a lesson that really helped me understand the importance of my First Love. https://loveatlast.org/his-bride/

    “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.”
    ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭6‬:‭33‬ ‭NIV‬‬
    https://bible.com/bible/111/mat.6.33.NIV

    “Take delight in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart.”
    ‭‭Psalms‬ ‭37‬:‭4‬ ‭NIV‬‬
    https://bible.com/bible/111/psa.37.4.NIV

  3. Hello my dear precious sister 💐 because God has turned your heart know that HE is working everything out for GOOD. He changes us and gives us new hearts and turns our hearts of stone into hearts of flesh as we draw closer to Him.

    https://biblehub.com/ezekiel/36-26.htm

    Be sure to check out the links shared in the comments above, what the ladies sharex was a tremendous help to me at a time when my heart was breaking l learned the truth that set me free 🙌. I know its a lot to take in. SG Seek God and let Him lead and guide you.

    Isaiah 61:7
    7 Instead of your shame you will receive a double portion, and instead of disgrace you will rejoice in your inheritance. And so you will inherit a double portion in your land, and everlasting joy will be yours.

    https://biblehub.com/isaiah/61-7.htm

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