Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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| Country: |
| United States |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Married and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| I found your ministry searching for how to restore my marriage. I just started reading the book. |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| I have come because I am the one who had messed up. Back in 2018-2019. I was entertaining other man online before (my husband and I got married). We were texting, and sending pictures/videos. I did end up stop talking to him during that time. My husband was asking me who has my attention. Of course I lied. And have been all this time about not ever talking to anybody. A month ago. I lied about ignoring his text. And that was when everything started. I told him I was entertaining of people online. My husband believes I did more than that. Because I have no proof. I deleted everything. I truly don’t remember anything about the man. It started on a website and we started texting. I never seen his face or anything. He did never saw my face. That I can remember. I truly don’t remember much of anything about him. Why idk (I don’t know). If I’m not trying to remember and I buried it keep down or what. Also on top of that. I lied and sent him on a goose chase. Saying it was on instagram. So I made a fool out of him. I didn’t remember at the time where I started talking to him. But now idk if I was just trying to forget. I prayed for God to reveal things to me. Which is he some. I deleted the app before my husband could see it. I kept lying about everything. He put everything together himself. I honestly haven’t ever physically step out on him. But I can’t prove any of this. On top of all that. Over the years I haven’t respected, listened, or done anything he has asked of me to do. He’s tired of always being right about something. And tired of hearing me say I should’ve listened to you. We are currently in marriage counseling. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| God please help me save my marriage. I can’t see my life without him. I have neglected him. I took him for granted. Thinking he would never leave me. God I know I have messed up and lied to him. And honestly idk why he would want to be with me. He can get a better women than me. He deserves better than me. But I can’t see myself without him. I don’t want to eat and my daughter is the only one keeping me from giving up on myself. It hurts me that I’ve caused all this pain and anger inside of him. I just want him to be happy. But I’m selfish enough that I don’t want it to be without me. Lord I’m scared. Idk what to do. Lord I need you to change me from the inside out. Lord I need you desperately. My family needs you. I don’t deserve my husband. Help me to trust in you with my whole heart. Give me the faith I need in you. The strength to endure it all. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. I have fallen into adultery, I need help. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Publicly on Encouraging Women. Sample |
Dearest bride, I am so sorry to hear what you are currently experiencing right now. I want to encourage you to take everything to our Heavenly Father. I too was the one whom had fallen into adultery a few years back. Repent, confess and forgive and love.
I would like to encourage you to start with the first lesson of How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage:
https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d1-chapter-1-my-beloved/
I want to leave this with you:
Acts 3:19 NIV
[19] Repent, then, and turn to God, so that your sins may be wiped out, that times of refreshing may come from the Lord,
https://bible.com/bible/111/act.3.19.NIV
James 5:16 NIV
[16] Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
https://bible.com/bible/111/jas.5.16.NIV
Dear Bride,
I am sorry for all the pain you are experiencing right now. I would like to encourage you to use this time to seek the Lord. Pour your heart out to Him and renew your mind with His truth. As Elora said above, I would begin to journal through the RYM book because it will be used to help build your faith throughout this journey. https://hopeatlast.com/c1/ Journaling and praying helped me to transform into a better wife and mom. Again, I want to remind you that His Love is greater than you can imagine. He loves you, sees you, and forgives you. Take His hand now and follow Him.
”Those who look to him for help will be radiant with joy; no shadow of shame will darken their faces.“
Psalms 34:5 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/psa.34.5.NLT
”And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.“
Romans 8:28 NLT
https://bible.com/bible/116/rom.8.28.NLT
I’m sorry to hear about your situation. I’ve felt the heartbreak you are feeling. Remember that you’re not alone.
It’s understandable that you feel guilty and ashamed about your past actions but give it to the Lord, ask His forgiveness and no longer feel that shame that may be holding you back (condemnation is not from our Beloved but from the enemy) You can’t change the past, but you can learn from your mistakes and start walking that narrow path with Him.
I know that this is a lot to take in, but I know what the Lord can do, nothing is impossible. He has giving me children when I was told, after 3 miscarriages, that may not be possible and my marriage was restored. I want to encourage you to the many courses found here https://hopeatlast.com/c1/. Please study and then journal your thoughts.
God can restore your marriage, even if you’re the only one pursuing restoration and he hates divorce. Just be still and give all your concerns to Him. My husband was gone for months and living with the OW. We are now restored.
Embrace Him the Lord as your husband during the waiting period of restoration, acknowledging that “For your husband is your Maker…” (Isaiah 54:5).
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