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| Country: |
| United States |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| A group on FB, one of the members recommended this ministry |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| Hello, I am simply asking about this concept. If my husband tells me to divorce him, should I have done it? He became angry and bitter at me for making him do it. He told me he doesn't want to make me an adulterer if I remarried, which I won't. But now he's filing because I won't. I read in one of the lessons that a woman should only file if her husband tells her too. Should I be apologizing to my husband for not doing it or just let it go now? I recently committed adultery myself, which shines a huge light on the fact, I'm not ready for restoration, God is not first in my heart and I'm needing Him more than ever before. Lost and hurting here. My husband recently chose to move my two very young children in with him in his home. I am now living with my son from a previous relationship and know God allowed this to happen for a reason and I am clinging onto that right now. Anyways, I guess I wanted clarification on whether I should be obeying my husband by divorcing him or at this point just let it go and not bring it up? Lol thanks. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Lord give me wisdom. I just want to do what is right in your sight. I am overthinking all the time I just want to rest in your peace now. |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Fallen into adultery, need help. |
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Dear Bride, I know the situation you are facing feels very frustrating, but with the Lord, there is always hope! He knows what you’re going through and He’s working all things together for your good. This is an opportunity for you to grow closer to Him.
When my husband left he told me he loved me but wasn’t “in-love” with me anymore and he filed for divorce. The night before the first court date (I wasn’t planning on attending) my husband came and spent the night and slept through the hearing.
Even if your husband wants your marriage to end in divorce, almost all of us have been in that situation and we too have tried to fight for our marriages, get in our husbands’ way and stop them but we need to get out of their way and let them go for a while. God can restore your marriage, even if you’re the only one pursuing restoration. Just be still and give all your concerns to Him.
You mentioned that your husband wants a divorce but that this is something you have questions about. Please seek the Lord and have a look at our Facing Divorce Course. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/facing-divorce-course/
Here’s a lesson to help you understand about letting go of your earthly husband: https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/.
Also if you haven’t already started please do the courses and journal, as they will help renew your mind. https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
“Be very careful about what you think. Your thoughts run your life. Don’t use your mouth to tell lies. Don’t ever say things that are not true. Keep your eyes focused on what is right. Keep looking straight ahead to what is good. Be careful what you do. Always do what is right. Do not do anything unless it is right. Stay away from evil.” Pr4:23-30 ICB
Dear precious sister, l agree with Hope please have a look at our Facing Divorce course read through the lessons and journal them. It will bring so much understanding and its based on so much scripture. The answers that you seek must come from you seeking the Lord 🙏 so speak to Him about it.
Proverbs 3:5-6 says, “Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.”
Reading these will also help:
https://hopeatlast.com/c3/fda-chapter-5-beyond-agreement/
https://hopeatlast.com/c3/fda-chapter-4-dealing-with-those-talks/
Dear Bride, I too agree with brides Hope and Atarah who have encouraged you to read the book Facing Divorce Again and then pour out your heart after each chapter to Him. . If I, as a bride, had read this book during my divorce process and afterwards, I would have had so much more peace to surrender everything that happened to my Beloved. God knows why this crisis situation is happening in your life and what blessing will come next. The harder the struggle, the greater the blessing.
Besides reading this book, I would like to give you this page. It will give you the first step in knowing why things happen. https://hopeatlast.com/crisis-corner/
Search me, God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting. Psalm 139:23-24
I look forward to the praise reports and your restored marriage testimonial that you will submit.
Much Love
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