Name: |
Lacey in the USA |
I'm here: |
Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
Yes |
How did you find our ministry? |
Friend |
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
My husband left for 5 months. There was another woman involved. He recently came back home. Things were amazing we were fixing to start <b>counseling</b>. He was home for a week and left again. He has no moved in with the other woman. Says he wasn’t happy at home which i know isn’t true. He says he tried. He was logging into the other woman’s snap chat while home and got in contact with her. |
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
Lord I come to you asking for a miracle. I am seeking restoration of my marriage. I ask you convict my husbands heart so strong he has no choice but surrender to you. I pray for his hardened heart be broken and renewed softened and repenting. I pray for his salvation as he claims to be agnostic. I pray the other woman is removed from our marriage and his life. In Jesus name |
In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
Are you interested in learning how you can help other women who are in marriage crisis as a Marriage Minister ? CLICK on the IMAGE that describes you right now. |
No, I am not in the position to help anyone at the moment. |
Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
Posting your questionnaire Publicly on Encouraging Women. |
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Dear Lacey, GOOD NEWS!
As promised, we posted your questionnaire.
We noticed you said, "No, I am not in the position to help anyone at the moment." but we'd like to share that the marriages that are restored are many times because of us sowing into someone else's life like C1 DAY 26 Read about Melanie and Listen ☊ to Sowing & Reaping. You are hoping for your husband to have a change of heart, so maybe you might want to also pray about having a change of heart as well and look into becoming a Marriage Minister https://rmiou.com/mm/ to learn how He plans to restore your marriage after using you to help encourage someone else to be restored.
MUCH LOVE!!
Dear Lacey, it must be confusing when EH came back and left again. Most of us who found ourselves in a similar situation may wonder why God let it happen. I want to encourage you to read this lesson –
https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d19-gods-makeover/
“Being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.” Philippians 1:6 What if the Lord is trying to transform you into the Godly woman your husband needs? Are you willing to be “made over”?
I encourage you to use this time to grow in the Lord. So when it’s His appointed time, you will see the real change (He sees fit) happen.
Hi Lacey, I know it must be hard when your husband came back home but left again. After my eh decided he would come back home, it took over a month for him to “find a plan” to get away from the OW. It was hard because he would come over for a couple of hours only and then leave, telling me he wanted to come home but he had to find the “right way and time”. It can be sooo hard to let go and trust because the enemy will put all kinds of “what if’s” in your head. Just please run to the Lord as soon as the thoughts/questions arise and tell Him how you are feeling.
If you haven’t already please go read https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d15-the-freedom-of-letting-go/#comment-2616. Below is a little preview to How Can I Let Go?
“When we TRY to let go, the opposite happens—it actually makes us LONG for that person or thing even more!
The way God explained it to me is that when we are trying to diet, all we can think about is FOOD. That’s because when something is removed, rather than being replaced, then the craving gets stronger.
What you need to do is simply INCREASE your time and longing for the Lord, then you will quite naturally let go slowly but surely!”
Please start our courses and I will encourage you to pour out your heart and journal! (https://hopeatlast.com/rrr/)
“Those who sow in tears shall reap with joyful shouting.” Ps. 126:5.
Dear precious Lacey I am so grateful that you found RMI, it is where I found the Lord as my Heavenly Husband and moved closer and closer to Him while He was the One healing me and I want to encourage you to put all your focus, hope and trust in our wonderful Lord and make Him your First Love. He is the One that will bring healing and restoration and in Him there is everlasting Love – https://loveatlast.org/
I also want to encourage to start your restoration journey by doing our free courses and to start journaling whereby you pour out your heart to the best ever Healer because in Him there is hope and restoration – https://hopeatlast.com/
For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future. J29:11
Hi dear Lacey, this must be so heartbreaking for you and I am sorry for the hurt you are going through again. I would love for you to read the lesson on “They don’t have it” in the He Healed Me course.
https://loveatlast.org/hhm/tdh/
What helped me through all the pain was really to journal, I poured my heart out to my Saviour, who later became my Friend and now my Husband.
I know it may feel like a lot of work to journal it all, but I want to really encourage you that this is of so much help my dear Lacey.
I am excited to hear what He will do in your life and I hope to see you around journalling and encouraging other women in the same situation as yours.
“Long ago the Lord said to Israel[Lacey]: “I have loved you, my people[Lacey], with an everlasting love. With unfailing love I have drawn you to myself.” J313
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