Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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| Country: |
| Balkans |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| God brought me here when googling how to restore my marriage right after I found out about affair & my husband left me. |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| So strange because first time I filled one of these out I went into so much detail. Since reading God Will Restore your Marriage though and watching videos I have learned that by sharing to much I am actually slandering my husband. My husband has found himself entangled with another woman & has gone to live with her. He keeps telling me he does not know what he wants and to be patient with him. My husband actually says he has no problems with me.. that this is all him and there is something wrong with him. Since God has been working on me though I see where I had displeased God. I was controlling and manipulative but always did it under the guise of a kind, soft spirit so it was not as noticeable. Everyone thought I was the perfect submissive wife. Even myself. It has only been the past 2 months that God has revealed to me my real heart. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| Father, I thank you and praise you for bringing this trial in my life. All the years I have prayed for you to change my husband, make him the spiritual leader, and heal him while I was trying to control the outcome. I would have never seen the truth if you had not removed me from my lover & friends. On top of that he has been my idol our entire marriage. As much as this has gutted me I needed the glasses to be ripped off to remove him from your rightful place so I thank you for that. You know my heart. I want to find the true balance where all I need is you but at the same time keeping my husband upheld in my prayers for his healing. Not on my behalf, but because everyone needs you Lord. I am still working on drawing close to you without spiraling & I appreciate your patience with me. Please show me how to properly pray for my husband without making my marriage my idol now. Keep growing me. |
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| Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
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Dearest bride, I am so grateful that you are seeking Him to restore you. I see that you have read How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage and I want to encourage you to meditate on the verses lined out in this book using The Bible. Read it over and over again.
One thing that helped me is to seek more of Him whenever I feel the enemy attacking me..Just by talking to Him daily.
Meditate on Psalms and Proverbs,make notes of the promises outlined.
I want to encourage you to reread this chapter:
https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d5-chapter-5-your-first-love/
I want to leave these two very powerful verses with you:
“But seek first His kingdom and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you” (Matt. 6:33).
“Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For You are with me…”You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies; You anoint my head with oil; My cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of my life; And I will dwell in the house of the Lord Forever.” Psalm 23: 3-6
Dear beloved bride. The Lord love you unconditional. He are with you and hold your hand all the time. Give everything to Him. Let go and let God. I’m glad that you have read the book How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage. I want to encourage you to do the Course 2: Securing Your Success https://hopeatlast.com/c2/
Here is a few Promises.
Ezekiel 11:19 NIV
[19] I will give them an undivided heart and put a new spirit in them; I will remove from them their heart of stone and give them a heart of flesh.
https://ezekiel.bible/ezekiel-11-19
Jeremiah 29:11 NIV
[11] For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.
https://jeremiah.bible/jeremiah-29-11
Dear Bride, Your HH loves you. I’m glad you have read the book, ” How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage.” I would encourage you to put Him first in your day through prayer and scripture and go to Him first for everything you need and want because He is your husband and will provide and protect you. I encourage you to fast as well because you are the wife of your earthly husband’s youth. Continue to not share your husbands sins with others. Christ is the head of every man and is the authority over your husband in your marriage… so you can pray and ask God to speak to your EH that he should choose to obey God’s commands against adultey and return to the wife of his youth.
Beautiful Bride ,
I too was guilty of being controlling and manipulative . My marriage and husband were top priority. Isn’t it amazing that God takes his time to clean us from the inside out. Just remember we all fall short, your mistake’s are in the past and it’s time to move forward with the lord he will lead you. He’s waiting to help you.
Here’s a promise and lesson that I’ve held on to I hope it encourages you throughout your journey.
“Therefore the LORD longs to be gracious to you,
And therefore He waits on high to have compassion on you
For the LORD is a God of justice;
How blessed are all those who long for Him.”
—Isaiah 30:18
https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/chapter-7-longing-for-whom/