Please leave some encouragement for this bride who filled out an MEQ "Marriage Encouragement Questionnaire." Before commenting, please remember to:
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| Country: |
| United States |
| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Separated: I am married, but my husband does not live with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| Yes |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Reading a book on kindle |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My husband and I have been married for 4 years. We had our first baby this year in January. Before finding out I was pregnant we were a military family. My husband and I were deciding whether or not he was going to stay in the military. We then had chose not to stay and we were going to move to Texas. Well we found out about two months later that I was expecting. I then no longer wanted him to get out of the military because his back up plan that he had created did not go through. The day we found out the sex of the baby is the day my husband also found out within minutes of the news that his best friend had died in a fiery crash with his 18 wheeler. This was devastating. My husband had knee surgery that August. His separation date from the military was scheduled for September. I was 5 1/2 months pregnant at the time and my husband promised me we would not go without insurance. Two days before he let me know that we wouldn’t have insurance because he could not qualify for the guard due to knee surgery. I felt the security blanket was ripped from under me at that point. Things became rocky from then on. We packed our things and moved back home although I did not want to at this point. 1 hour into the drive the UHAUL broke down and delayed us getting home for another two days. When we made it to our new place we found out we had Covid, I had been feeling sick but I thought it to be pregnancy symptoms. I was forced to go to the ER after my nose bled for the 6th time. I had no insurance then. I was then referred to an OB. On my first visit the OB looked over my paperwork and I immediately sensed something was wrong. Fast forward, I went to be checked out by a high risk OB and my son was teetering on being below the 10% in weight for his gestation. My husband had no job yet so we were using our savings which was rapidly depleting. My parents moved in because there house was being renovated. I was able to get on state insurance. Things were just hard. My husband also had a particular friend back home whom I felt was no good. The more he began to hang around and communicate with him the more I started to see some things I did not like. My husband got a job overnight, I was being monitored twice a week with Dr.visits and things we’re looking up. FF we were told the baby needed to come out and that he had dropped below the 10%. We went to the hospital two days later, I labored until the baby started having complications and then ended up getting a C-section. My husband was amazing and took care of me and the baby the next two weeks. O things were going great:l. On April 5 my husband found an ig message from my affair partner of years ago where he had said happy valentine day Mrs. and I stupidly replied back Happy Valentines Day. From that point forward my husband stated he did not want the marriage and he began talking to and seeing other women instantly. He started having several affairs. He would deny, even tried to hide it, get other phones. I had finally had enough and moved me and the baby out because I no longer felt that he was trying to work on our marriage. Things got even worse and he abandoned me and the baby. He moved into his own apartment. I would tell the other women he was married and that he wasn’t helping with the baby. They didn’t care and it only made him madder at me. And it only hurt him spending time with our son even more. I would reach out to family for help and advice. It got me nowhere and I found out that people really do lack morals these days and the ability to care for others. I saw my husband in a whole new light. One I had never recognized before. He blamed me for the way our marriage was and kept saying he wanted a divorce and is still saying that 7 months later.
The bottom line is I want my husband back and our marriage restored. The main problems he stated are feeling respected and believing that a former affair partner will pop up again. I received confirmation a day before my baptism that the Lord wanted me to work on my marriage amongst other things, yet, my husband is still set on not working on anything. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| God I am not without fault in this marriage. I was stubborn, I was mean sometimes, and at times I did not show my husband the proper respect. When this first happened I was so busy looking at my husbands sin and wrongdoing that I couldn’t see how I was further contributing to the destruction of our marriage. God forgive me please. I now know the error of my ways and just submit to you and your will for me, for us, for this marriage. I forgive my husband and pray that from this day forward when I speak of him only sweetness drips from my tongue. I love my husband and I don’t want to be without him Lord. Please make me over again as I humbly submit myself to you Lord. Soften our hearts Lord and make us anew. Direct my steps and my tongue. Show me the way. |
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| Depressed. |
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Dear precious bride from the US, I am so sorry for all the hurt between you and your husband and I want to give you a promise that your marriage problems is not impossible for our Darling Lord to heal.
For nothing will be impossible with God. L1:37 https://biblehub.com/luke/1-37.htm
Although you have read How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage, I want to encourage you to please do Course 1 as if you have never read the book, because Course 1 is filled with so many testimonies and with each lesson you will get the chance to journal which I know is very important because you will get the chance to pour out your heart towards our loving Lord. https://hopeatlast.com/c1/
I want to encourage you not to just read the book but to really keep the promises and follow the principles.
And I too struggled with depression and my Darling Lord led me to speak His word into my life and to meditate on the promises in His word daily and through His word He changed my life and I am free of depression and I know our Darling Lord wants to do it for you too.
The tongue can bring death or life; those who love to talk will reap the consequences. P18:21 https://biblehub.com/proverbs/18-21.htm
Precious bride I look forward to see what our Darling Lord is going to do in your life and in your marriage.
Dear orecious bride,
I’m so sorry to hear you are going through this time with your earthly husband. I want to encourage you to make the Savior/ Lord your heavenly husband as in Isaiah 54:5 by seeking His face, putting him first in your day through prayer and scripture study and every decision that you make, and focus on loving Him and receiving/ feeling his love for you. Remember that Christ is the “head of every man” Corinthians 11:3 so that ” in the same way, you wives be submissive to your husbands, so that even if any of them are disobedient to the Word, they may be won without a word by the behavior of their wives… ” 1 Peter 3:1-2. You can pray and speak to the Lord about your husband’s behavior and ask Him to handle it for you. I agree with Adina to do Course 1 and journal. It will really help you apply the principles to your life and you will see miracles occur. Be Still… gentle and quiet and do not react. Only kindness on your tongue. Control your thoughts, words, and actions to keep His/ The Lord’s spirit with you.
Dear Priceless, thank you so much for having the heart to encourage this bride. Giving hope and encouragement, especially when we don’t have any hope for ourselves, is such a powerful principle, please read https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d26-sowing-reaping/.
If you sense that the Lord is calling you to help others, please Seek God about enrolling in our online university. RMIOU. Here is how to get started: https://rmiou.com/htgs/
Dear beloved bride. The Lord love you unconditional. He is with you and hold you. The Lord wil work in your and your husband hearts. He will heal your pain. The Lord hear your prayers. The Lord is your potter and you are the clay in His hands. Dear bride give everything to the Lord. Let go and let God.
Jeremiah 18:6 NIV
[6] He said, “Can I not do with you, Israel, as this potter does?” declares the Lord. “Like clay in the hand of the potter, so are you in my hand, Israel.
https://jeremiah.bible/jeremiah-18-6
Romans 15:13 NIV
[13] May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.
https://romans.bible/romans-15-13
Dear precious bride,
Please know that this journey you are entering will change you for ever, for the best ! God can do the impossible. I can attest from this, as the other restored brides from this Ministry.
“I can do all things through him who strengthens me.” Philippians 4:13
“Fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God; I will strengthen you, I will help you, I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.” Isaiah 41:10
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