I want to praise my Husband today for how much He has changed me. When someone would get mad at me it used to hurt me and stress me so much. I would just break down stressing about it. The worse part is I was "needing" others to like me. Well my Husband showed me I'm not that person anymore.
My sister and her EH have been having trouble for a long time. They're now separated. They've both come to me to talk. I've referred them both to this ministry and the resources, free courses and even given my sister the books. My sister is making great progress in finding her HH and trusting Him more.
The other day when I was talking to my sister on the phone her EH texted me also wanting to talk. After the call I responded that I'm not available. I've already referred him to our mens ministry website here. The next day she knew this from looking up their phone log and was upset at me that I didn't tell her he texted me. She also said he should be contacting his own siblings with his problems. I let her know I haven't spoken to him in a long time and does she really want him to be searching for advice from people who will encourage him to divorce her or treat her badly?
So first, I want to encourage all you brides to stop snooping on your EH activities. You are only giving the enemy a place to hurt you, making it hard to keep seeing with eyes of faith. Any info you may find will only hurt you and has nothing to do with your relationship with your True Love.
https://hopeatlast.com/get-help-to-hurdles-over-your-fears-with-testimonies-milestones/milestone-3-fasting-facebook/
Second, I see a permanent change in me and I'm so happy about this. I'm not that fragile, stressed out, shaken up, needy person I used to be. It's OK that's she's upset. She needs to talk to her HH as I've talked to mine. I know that my Husband protects and defends me. I need not fight because He fights for me. I am pleasing and precious to my Husband. Nothing can separate me from Him, His love, peace and joy. And actually, it's He that stands before me and separates me from any evil that comes at me. 💞
Thank you for sharing my dear Ruby, snooping opens you up to so much hurt. I used to snoop on all my fh devices that I could get hold of, and besides getting hurt badly, it caused more damage and destruction.
Another lesson I do want to share about the snooping, spying or following is:
https://hopeatlast.com/c3/fda-chapter-9-spying-and-following/
Thank you for sharing precious Ruby, for long I also needed other peoples approval and for them to like me and it was only my Darling Love that could se me free. I have to admit I also struggled with snooping and it became so bad that it became an addiction and my advice is also to not even start it, BUT I just love our Darling Lord because He doesn’t leave us the way we are and He sets us free.
I used to post a lot on my fb and would go back to check how many comments or likes l got…
Then HE also showed me that l was trying to get approval from people… And did it really matter what they thought of me? Would it change my life? Then l knew that my Husband was the only one whose approval i needed and that l needed to please.
Im so glad you shared about this Ruby because its so true. I also used to snoop and even worse started going past eh work to see what was going on… It hurt me so much more the more l knew… I would feel more angry hurt and frustrated.
Im so glad your sister is growing closer to Him.