"And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the RENEWING of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect"—Romans 12:2
Dear Brides
Just want to share my heart and praise my Love for what he is doing in me.
One morning while in prayer I felt like I heard that I should remove my wedding ring, I thought is that right?
E.H has filled for divorce a year ago , but is pending because he got some errors on it, and he still live with us, and had removed his wedding ring long ago, I kept mine because I am still legally married, until a heard that in that morning. I sought the Lord it felt like , yes I should have removed, even I saw some Bible passages that were looking that it was ok, but I was unsure, I removed and put back the rings couple of times, then removed for a while and now put it back when I learned about the Fear of the Lord, just as the author in this lesson (https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d8-wedding-rings/) learned about the meaning of the weeding rings. As in this lesson has explained it was also in one moment of hurt that I removed it. I did not realise that our pain and hurts are so deep that it can drive our actions. Also another thing that are very deep in me are the work of the flesh, I do it even without realising it, at the beginning of my journey I was working a lot to win E.H back, to win the children back , I worked letting go ( this one to I used to work a lot) and this time with the removing of the weeding rings were the same too. I also was lazy and skeptical and did not really seek the Lord to hear Him properly I did not took the time, until I was reading a book on the fear of the Lord. I am grateful for Him for not giving up on me, and he showed me the way to go, I could also share it and confess it to one Bride who reminded me of this lesson: https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d8-wedding-rings/.
I praise my Beloved because I wanted to learn for a long time what it means to Fear the Lord, for I understood that this is a basic for foundation for intimacy with Him, by putting back the ring it actually helped me more to let go, contrary to the work of the flesh, I am also happier and more in peace.
Grateful for your prayers.
Thank you for sharing dear Naomi, it is so wonderful that our Loving Lord never ever gives up on us. I am so grateful for that, He is really the best Lord ever.
Dear Naomi, I am glad that you are finding peace and happiness in your relationship with your HH. I’m glad that the lesson helped guide you and I pray that you will continue to grow in your faith and that He will bless you abundantly.
Dear Naomi, I know the struggle. I took off mine for a few months last year and there was a day I was convicted and there was such a strong urge to put it back on and I did. And that was before I came to RMI. There are so many principles to learn on RMI and it’s worth taking all the time to understand and apply them in our lives. Other times we need to trust His lead.
Yes Noami only He knows the hidden secrets of our heart hey? Im so glad that you did not leave it alone and kept asking your Husband to show you the truth and thru all the doubts, the hurt and the pain that drive your actions… ultimately.. He showed you the truth that set you free and drew you closer to Him and with this testimony of praise to share ❤️ the rings lesson also helped me a lot when l also was not sure to keep it on or not.
Yes it’s so good to be ablle to talk with Him and get the answers we need, plus the fear of the Lord leads us to love, honor and obey Him, It is nice to see how He is working in your life. You and all of us only have to trust Him.