When we dress, who are we reflecting?

". . . as they observe your chaste and respectful behavior." 1 Peter 3:1-2

Hello dear brides, I want to share with you what the Lord told me while I was reading this wonderful lesson from “The Wise Woman in Waiting”, "Chaste and Respectful “

First I want to praise the Lord for this lesson that has so renewed my mind. I had already read this chapter in the book “The Wise Woman”…but this time it seems that I understand what my Lord has always encouraged me to do in relation to the way I speak to people, the way I dress, and the ugly words that we hear people say so often.

I don’t know if it’s me, but dear bride, have you ever felt or noticed that in every sentence that people form these days, each one of them has a swear word in the middle?

But let me show you what the Lord showed me... the way we women dress shows a lot about who we are and Who we belong to, and I praise my Lord because after He introduced Himself to me, I understood that my body is His house, and that I must be in perfect harmony with Him (sometimes I leave the house without thinking, badly dressed).

So I always thought women in dresses, skirts and cloth pants were elegant (oh but it's so tacky), I think it's BEAUTIFUL! Women like that look like royal brides 🌸
For a long time, my ex-husband insisted that I dress in a way that would "notice" my body, but I felt uncomfortable, and the reason I felt that way is because of the eyes on me, and the way I dress can awaken other things that I like to avoid, even so as not to make anyone fall, who knows, maybe even myself! “Remember who you are” was what Erin reminded me of today while I was reading this lesson!

So dear bride, I want to tell you or remind you of who you are. You are the daughter of the King and the bride of the King’s son 💗

(A girl in the United States realized exactly this, and one day she met the Lord, and someone asked her what she was going to do about the way she dressed, since for many it was scandalous. Friends, what she said left me breathless.

“From today on, I will dress as if the Lord were my companion” 🥹🥰)

I have never forgotten this, and wherever I go, and someone questions the way I dress, I always respond with this answer of hers!

Who knows, maybe you need to spend some time alone with your Father and ask if you should change the way you dress or even what to wear. He always shows it and responds in the most beautiful way I have ever seen someone respond to another!

Receive my hug, be encouraged 🌺
Chapter 7 Chaste and Respectful

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Olá queridas noivas, quero compartilhar com vocês o que Senhor me disse, enquanto eu lia essa maravilhosa lição de “A mulher sábia em espera”, Casta e respeitosa “
Primeiro quero Louvar ao meu Marido, por essa lição que tanto renovou a minha mente , eu já tinha lido esse capítulo no livro “A mulher sábia” …mas dessa vez parece que eu entendo o que o meu Senhor sempre me impulsionou a fazer em relação a minha forma de falar com as pessoas, o meu modo de vestir, e as palavras feias que nós ouvimos tanto as pessoas falarem.

Não sei se sou eu, mas querida noiva, você já sentiu ou já percebeu que a cada frase que as pessoa formam nos dias de hoje, em cada uma delas tem um palavrão no meio?

Mas deixa me te mostrar o que o Senhor me mostrou.. a forma como nós as mulheres vestimos, mostra muito quem nós somos e de Quem nós somos, e eu Louvo ao meu Senhor porque depois que Ele se apresentou a mim, eu compreendi que meu corpo é Sua casa, e que eu deva estar em perfeita combinação com Ele (as vezes eu saio de casa atoa, mal vestida)

Então eu sempre achei elegante as mulheres de vestido, saia e calças de pano (ah mas é tão cafona), eu acho LINDO! Parece uma Noiva da realeza as mulheres assim 🌸
Por muito tempo o ex marido terreno insistiu para que eu me vestisse de forma que “se notasse “ o meu corpo, mas eu me sentia desconfortável , e o motivo de eu me sentir assim é por conta dos olhos em cima de mim, e a forma como me visto pode despertar outras coisas dos quais eu gosto de evitar, até para não levar ninguém a cair, quem sabe eu mesma !
“Lembre se quem você é” , foi o que a Erin me trouxe a memória hoje, enquanto eu lia essa lição !

Portanto querida noiva, quero te dizer também ou trazer a tua memória quem tu és, Tu és filha do Rei, e noiva do filho do Rei 💗

(Uma menina nos Estados Unidos, percebeu exatamente isso, e um dia ela conheceu Jesus , e alguém perguntou a ela o que ela iria fazer em relação a sua forma de vestir, já que para muitos era escândaloso, amigas o que ela disse me deixou sem ar..
“A partir de hoje, vou vestir me como se Jesus fosse meu companheiro “ 🥹🥰)

Eu nunca mais esqueci disso, e por onde passo, e alguém questiona a minha forma de vestir eu sempre respondo com essa resposta dela !
Quem sabe você precisa passar um tempo a sós com seu Pai e perguntar se devia mudar sua forma de vestir ou até mesmo o que usar, Ele sempre mostra e responde da forma mais linda que eu já vi alguém responder a outro!

Receba meu abraço, seja encorajada 🌺
Chapter 7 Chaste and Respectful

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12 thoughts on “When we dress, who are we reflecting?”

  1. Thank you for sharing precious Lessyane. Yes precious Lessyane we must remember who we are.
    I am reminded of this beautiful promise: “She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come.” P31:25
    And the word dignity’s meanings is “the state or quality of being worthy of honour or respect.”

    1. Sim querida Adina. Obrigada pelo seu comentário.
      Nós temos O melhor do nosso lado, e com certeza , Ele espera que tenhamos um comportamento adequado por causa dEle , e ainda bem que é assim ♥️
      ~~~
      Yes dear Adina. Thank you for your comment.
      We have the best on our side, and of course, He expects us to behave appropriately because of Him, and I’m glad that’s the case ♥️

  2. Hello! I’m so happy you shared your thoughts on the lesson from “The Wise Woman in Waiting.” It’s great to hear how it’s made you think about how you communicate, dress, and act with others. And yes, it’s true that almost every day at work, on TV, and in public, we hear people swearing in almost every sentence. The way we present ourselves can show who we are inside and how we feel about God. Keep inspiring others, dear bride!

    1. Hope. Agora mesmo, tive uma visão com você 😲
      Eu já tinha lido isso antes , uau! Meu Amor me lembrou disso. Uau

      Estou eu no meu Local de trabalho, na mesma posição a fazer o que estou a fazer e a responder você 💜👌
      “Um tempo como este”, aleluia 🙏🏾
      Eu vejo em filmes, novelas, na rua.. por isso deixei de ver televisão porque eu fico estupefata em como os adultos tem dito tantos palavrão na televisão, e as nossas crianças acabam por reproduzir o que eles ouvem !
      ~~~
      Hope. Just now, I had a vision with you 😲
      I had read this before, wow! My Love reminded me of this. Wow

      I’m in my workplace, in the same position doing what I’m doing and responding to you 💜👌
      “A time like this”, hallelujah 🙏🏾
      I see it in films, soap operas, on the street… that’s why I stopped watching television because I’m amazed at how adults have said so many bad words on television, and our children end up reproducing what they hear!

      1. Wow, that’s amazing! It sounds like He is trying to show you something very special. I’m so happy that your Love reminded you of it.

        Wow isso é incrível! Parece que Ele está tentando lhe mostrar algo muito especial. Estou tão feliz que seu amor te lembrou disso.

  3. This is so gooood my dear and also so convicting for all of us. We must always remember to whom we belong ♥️ we are royal brides and He wants that our heart shines through everything we do. We must represent Him in everything we do 🙌
    Thank you for reminding us about this truth ❤️

    1. Sim Isa. Nós somos Sua carta escrita. Quando as pessoas olham para nós, devem ver Ele, e não nos ! Tenho tanto cuidado quando converso com alguém para não deixar meu eu falar mais alto, pela Sua bondade até aqui Ele tem me sustentando e quanto a isso é tantas outras coisas.
      ~~~
      Yes Isa. We are His written letter. When people look at us, they should see Him, not us! I am so careful when I talk to someone not to let my self speak louder, because of His goodness He has sustained me so far and in that regard, there are so many other things.

  4. Thank you my dear for sharing. I have never felt comfortable dressing in a way that is revealing. But on my journey, I also realized it is not just about the way we dress, but also the way we act and speak that reflects who we are as woman, we are His brides, and our inner beauty must shine through, His love must be reflected in everything we do.

    “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. 4 Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4

    1. Sim querida.
      Eu também aprendi isso, enquanto caminho ao Seu lado, que posso estar enfeitada dos pés até a cabeça mas que se as palavras que saem da minha boca não mostram quem Ele é, de nada adianta “estar linda bela”, a rainha Ester não precisou de enfeites .. cada uma nos pode se tornar numa Ester ♥️
      ~~~
      Yes my dear.
      I also learned this, as I walk by His side, that I can be adorned from head to toe but that if the words that come out of my mouth don’t show who He is, there’s no point in “looking beautiful, beautiful”, Queen Esther didn’t need to of decorations.. each one of us can become an Ester ♥️

  5. Thank you dear Lessyane for sharing. I also never felt comfortable wearing flashy, short clothes, but I learned on this journey that when we walk with Him, people feel Him in us through how we dress, how we behave, what we say, and how we act. in the face of situations, because really all of this changes within us, and for the better, of course.
    “You yourselves are our letter, written in our hearts, known and read by all.” 2Co3.2 https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=2+Cor%C3%ADntios+3%3A2&version=NIV-EN

    1. É isso mesmo Marta .. é isso mesmo que você falou! As pessoas olham para a nós, aliás eu cheguei a conclusão que as pessoas estão sempre a olhar para nós, e eu quero tanto que as pessoas O vejam em mim e queiram No como eu 🧡

      Também me sinto desconfortável com roupas curtas, mesmo que seja no verão, eu tento sempre “ não mostrar” demais, como eu disse para eu não cair e não tentar ninguém !
      ~~~
      That’s right Marta.. that’s exactly what you said! People look at us, in fact I came to the conclusion that people are always looking at us, and I so want people to see Him in me and want Him like me 🧡

      I also feel uncomfortable in short clothes, even if it’s in the summer, I always try to “not show” too much, like I said so I don’t fall and tempt anyone!

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