♕ Today's Promise: “For many are called, but few are chosen." Matthew 22:14
I want to thank the partners for this amazing gift they make available for all woman who are broken and defeated. One thing I realized reading all the testimonies etc, are how big this divorce /adultery epidemic really is. Looking at my own situation I also realized how people don't see divorce, remarriage and even adultery as against God's will. Its as if its just okay; divorce, remarriage and adultery will be forgiven so it doesn't matter.
What I came away with during course 2 is to let go, get to know your HH, become His church and that your relationship and forgiveness. I really felt like I am more able to let go and focus on my HH during course 2.
When I found this ministry I was part of a Standers ministry for 2 months. I found them at a point where I wanted to give up on my marriage and dealing with an ongoing affair. Restoration was not even something I knew about or wanted. But my HH placed restoration in my heart which led me to do some research. I did start to focus more on God and there was improvement between me and my FH, to the point where we were all shocked when he filed for divorce.
I found this ministry through a link on a FB stander's group. Funny how I never found your ministry first, but I suppose its all part of my HH plan for me. Since then I stopped all other ministries and started to do the courses. During the final stages of the divorce my FH and I just stopped talking and a huge hate wall came up. I didn't fight or get an attorney. I just agreed with his offer and signed because he insisted but we both were just hurt and angry. He went straight back to the ow or were never apart before and after the divorce. I never asked but they are together and my kids went on holiday with them.
I was broken over and over during the last 5 yrs when this affair started and its only my HH Hand that got me through the toughest times. I really had to take His hand to get through this up to this point. I still make a lot of mistakes but I know He loves me and pick me up again.
My FH and I went from not talking at all to him visiting the kids at home and us starting to be friends at the moment. I just try to be kind and gentle, not saying or asking anything, only speaking to my HH about everything. 2 weeks ago my FH did draw closer to me and he wanted to be with me, then suddenly he withdrew, becoming cold and distant but still friendly. I know from doing the courses what is happening. But I don't read into anything and only want to seek my HH now. He is all I need to live a abundant life.
My beloved HH, Thank you for leading me to this ministry and Your timing for me to have found them. I know You had a plan for me, a divine appointment. I know now that You want to restore more than my marriage, but Our relationship first and foremost.
Thank you my love for being all that I need and giving me an abundant life despite everything.
Dear Sister, I know you might be broken right now, but there is a way, there is hope and His name is the Lord. Get to know Him, make Him your everything, learn His principles and get on the potter's wheel. He can and will save your marriage, but obey and follow Him. Read the RYM book and do the courses, it will save you, your marriage, your EH/FH and children.
I got to read the Facing Divorce book when our divorce were almost done. But I never fought or got a laywer. I just agreed. But for women who are still facing divorce or its been mentioned, please read it, it will benefit you greatly. Get the Best Lawyer on your side and let Him fight for you.
Restoration is possible, but it must be God's way, your HH's way, He will perfectly restore you, your marriage, family and finances. Do the courses, read the books and let God be God in your situation. Get to know Him as Your HH and follow His principles.
~ Adina in South Africa
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