He Truly Heals ALL Relationships

Praise my Husband! He is faithful!
I have bee praying and leaving things up to my Love to heal things and He is working. Only He can turn hearts.

Let me start off by sharing that my FH and I have always had trouble getting through to our second son. He is very extreme. He would protect you with his own life but when he's upset with you or about something he can be very difficult. Him and his Dad have always had a strained relationship and he was very angry with him when he left us. I've always prayed for their relationship to heal and for my son to seek his HF.

My son had been struggling with his college classes and was a little difficult to communicate with and there had been some issues here at home with him. I have stopped myself from further talking or addressing issues. I let go even encouraging him to turn to his HF because I felt he was not really receiving it in all his frustration. I surrendered it all to my Husband because I know that he is the only One who can change hearts and He was working on him. I trust my Husband completely. He loves His son and wouldn't leave him that way.

Lately he was very upset with people he worked with. He's assistant coach my youngest son's high school team. The head coach has been disrespectful several times. My son has done alot to avoid responding or reacting to him.

They finally had an argument and it almost got into a physical altercation. My FH was there for some of it and he told me what happened. Later he asked me to speak to our son about it. I first had to spend the morning with my Husband. I needed more of him. I was feeling weary and was not looking forward to it.

By the time I spoke to him he said he and his Dad already talked. My first reaction was this is what causes confusion and conflict because FH asked me to talk to him and then he talked to him first and didn't tell me. My son said that his conversation with his Dad didnt go well at first. He also said he was sorry for how the situation happened with the coach and he prayed about it. He was upset with himself for failing to walk away. This is a huge change in my son's heart! I was then given the opportunity to then speak more about some lessons and principles I learned here at RMI. He was humble and was listening and agreed. Hallelujah!!

Not only that, he said at the end of the conversation with his Dad that his Dad apologized to him for not handling the situation right, he could've been a better father to him. He realizes he's a young man now and he can handle his own situations but he could've been there for him and supported him better. WOW!! This is amazing!

I was in shock and I felt that all I had to do had already been done. I didnt need to hear all the drama, lecture him or face the defensiveness, disagreement or anger. I just needed to give comfort and support. This is who I've always wanted to be as a mother, woman and wife (but now bride to my HH and co-parent to FH ). My first reaction was ridiculous as I see now that my HH has taken care of everything for me. He is working in my sons heart, He is healing the relationship between him and his Dad and He takes the burden from me and lets me be the woman He made me to be. This is the best gift and blessing He can give me, more than I ever imagined ♥️

I've been reading the Trust God To Restore Your Relationships book. I encourage you all to read it also. He really does heal ALL RELATIONSHIPS
https://loveatlast.org/restore-your-relationships/