Name: |
Brittany in the US |
I'm here: |
Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
Divorced. |
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
Yes |
How did you find our ministry? |
Someone recommended the book via social media |
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
My former husband and I come from a long line of divorce and abuse. We were separated many times. During our last separation I filed for divorce and then he acted on his log time addiction and immediately left us and God. In 2017 God transformed me and my self righteousness. I saw my own sin and stopped blaming only him. I started standing. He is still with the same woman although they go up and down. I am still standing and seeking God. |
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
Gracious King, Heavenly Father and Glorious LordI want all that you want for me and for your glory. You know you have my heart. Please search me and know me and continue to sanctify me in all my ways.
I know each day has its own trials. I thank you for using them for my good and your glory. I thank you that you have provided through everything. Forgive my frustrations as I know you have been betrayed and tempted just as any human was. In your time and by your power and might. Not by my own strength. Allow me to be a witness of your love to my children and to all those I come in contact. I speak against the anger that rises up in me towards them and towards my former spouse specifically. May laughter and joy be like a medicine to my family. May the Holy Spirit use me each day to be encounter with someone else for Him. I ask Lord God that you would thwart the enemy’s schemes and remove the lies and tactics that continue to keep a veil around my covenant husbands heart and eyes as well as both of our extended families. With you all things are possible. When I don’t believe it or see it I stand on the truth of your word to achieve it by your strength each day. Father God help my unbelief. Lord teach us to pray. Increase of faith. |
In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
Custody issues. Thankfully I have no other concerns other than my relationship at this time. |
Are you interested in learning how you can help other women who are in marriage crisis as a Marriage Minister ? CLICK on the IMAGE that describes you right now. |
Yes, maybe in the future . Please send me the information to pray about it. |
Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
Posting your questionnaire Publicly on Encouraging Women. Sample |
Before commenting, remember to:
- Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
- Keep it SHORT.
- Encourage sharing 1-2 Promises.
- Bridge to the course He used to lead you along your Restoration Journey.
- Once we see a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride, we will reply to her email and CLOSE this session. Thank you!!
Should you want to further encourage her, not overwhelm or cause confusion, we encourage you to reply beneath the first 3 MM and confirm what that MM is saying, “Every fact is to be confirmed by the testimony of two or three witnesses.” 2 Corinthians 13:1
MUCH LOVE!!
My dear Brittany, He led me to share my Custody Loss Novel with you since I faced custody loss almost two years after the divorce (https://narrowroadpublishinghouse.com/rjn-adina/). Facing Custody Issues are never easy, heartbreaking to say the least, but He called me to go through it to have a testimony to share with others who also face custody issues.
I would also like to encourage you to visit LoveAtLast.org (https://loveatlast.org/) during this part of your journey. Start focusing on your relationship with the Lord, make Him your First Love and Find the Abundant Life He died to give you, no matter what part of your journey you are on. https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
He alone can heal you and fill all the voids you might have deep inside your heart that no man can fill. Finding Him as your firt love and becoming His bride (https://loveatlast.org/his-bride/) will change your life and bring you to a place of peace and joy regardless of your current circumstances..
“The thief comes only to steal, and kill, and destroy; I came that they might have LIFE, and might have it ABUNDANTLY”
“…the Lord appeared to him from far away. I have loved you with an everlasting love; therefore, I have continued to extend faithful love to you.” – Jeremiah 31:3
Dear precious Brittany I agree with dear Adina to visit LoveAtLast, because after seeing all the peace and joy the brides had, I also wanted it and searched for more wisdom on https://loveatlast.org/ and when our wonderful Lord became my Darling Heavenly Husband He filled the void I had for so many years and it was He that brings the change we so much need. Precious Brittany the Lord is the One that will heal all your hurt, all your anger, just focus on Him, seek God and allow Him to lead you.
“For your Maker is your husband—the Lord Almighty is his name—the Holy One of Israel is your Redeemer; he is called the God of all the earth. The Lord will call you back as if you were a wife deserted and distressed in spirit—a wife who married young, only to be rejected,” says your God. “For a brief moment I abandoned you, but with deep compassion I will bring you back.” I54:5-7
I encourage you to start with our courses and start journaling, whereby you pour your heart out to our Darling Lord. “I have loved you with an everlasting love; Therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you and continued My faithfulness to you.” J31:3
Dear Brittany, thank you for sharing your journey with us. I love to see the faith in your words to the Lord and please never cease seeking Him for your situation. My Husband has put in my mind to share with you about the “gentle and quiet spirit” as well as this verse “what causes fights and quarrels among you? Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you?” James 4:1 We brides must be able to lay down our will and embrace His in order to see the fruit of His words proper in our lives.
In the meantime, I encourage you to find your Heavenly Husband – https://hopeatlast.com/c2/d22-heavenly-husband/
“Yet the LORD longs to be gracious to you; therefore he will rise up to show you compassion. For the LORD is a God of justice. Blessed are all who wait for him!” Isaiah 30:18
Please taste and see how good He is and remember this journey cannot move forward without Him holding your hand. “For I am the LORD your God who takes hold of your right hand and says to you, Do not fear; I will help you.” Isaiah 41:13
“‘For My thoughts are not your thoughts, nor are your ways My ways,’ declares the LORD. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are My ways higher than your ways and My thoughts than your thoughts’” Isa. 55:8–9.
My sweet dear Brittany the Lord brought you here to heal you and change your life! Thank you for opening your heart to us. I just feel led to tell you that The Lord loves you and He brought you here for a reason. He wants to change your life and bring healing, peace, and joy.
Because of all the situations you have lived, I want to recommend this course He Healed Me: https://loveatlast.org/hhm/, because our Beloved wants to heal every aspect of your life.
This book/course Facing Divorce Again Chapter 1. God is Looking to Reward You: https://hopeatlast.com/c3/fda-chapter-1-god-is-looking-to-reward-you/ is so good. It gave me so much understanding about the challenges we face!
Brittany take heart, The Lord is with you and He loves you so much! You are starting a journey with Him and is life-changing!
After Gio, we had a 3 Cord of comments supporting \o/\o/\o/ this bride, we will reply to her email and so we have CLOSED this session. Thank you!!