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| What language do you speak? |
| English |
| I'm here: |
| Seeking restoration for my marriage. |
| What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation. |
| Married and my husband lives with me. |
| Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?" |
| No |
| How did you find our ministry? |
| Through a google search and a website called encouraging women.com a post called I won’t my husband without a word” |
| Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship? |
| My husband has emotional issues… gets very angry, shuts down and gets mad if I have any emotional needs. He also struggles with porn/lust. He has a friend who is separated from his wife and having an affair justifying it because they’ve been separated 4 years and I’m concerned about him being friends with this guy because of his bitterness and some views he’s influencing on my husband. My husband and I met on a worship team but he will not step foot in a church and has maybe 3 times in 4 years and each time was a lot of spiritual warfare and him practically dragging me to leave righht away. He has a sweet heart but has an angry spirit and can go from dr Jekyll to mr Hyde … one minute he sees how he’s treating me and the next he is all in denial and confused and blaming me for things that are not true. There have been some weird things happen that cause a huge wedge between us like where he just simply believed things that were untrue and there was nothing I could have done differently in that area but I realized in other areas I could definitely be more wise and gentle. For instance he thinks I’m not respecting him when he gets in a controlling spirit and wants to dominate and gets very weird about it. Other times I can see where I could definitely be more submissive when he is rude or unhelpful with the kids and i should just be quiet and kind and not nag. But in the first situation I really feel like it’s not disrespecting and is coming from a very oppressive part of him that wants me to bow to control instead of the Lord. I definitely sometimes struggle to keep my mouth shut when he’s being mean and get triggered when he shuts down/puts walls up and feel abandoned so I know the Lord wants me to go to Him more but I do struggle with feeling like my husband only loves me when I’m “easy” and it’s hard because both my dads are that way and emotionally abusive. |
| Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him. |
| I pray that you heal my marriage with my husband. You know what I’ve been through with emotional and mental abuse growing up and you know what’s operating in my husband. You know his heart is much more hard but I believe he doesn’t want to be and he doesn’t see what the enemy is doing. I know and sense that the enemy is trying to set him up and cause division and possibly ow and I pray you stop it and help me walk in a gentle spirit but also boldness when I need to so I don’t bow in fear to oppression but only bow to you God. Help me to love him the way he needs to and help me to know what to do. Show me hope you our relationship being restored and help me lean on you better instead of being so disappointed and discouraged and scared about my marriage |
| In order for us to minister more effectively to you, please check what concerns apply to you: |
| Depressed. Abused or molested as a child. |
| Finally, please choose how you would like us to conduct your Marriage Evaluation from the choices below. |
| Posting your questionnaire Publicly on Encouraging Women. Sample |
My lovely sister, I know how you can feel now but our HH has the best plans for you.But To find your life, you have got to lose it, all the losers get a crown.
The reason your life is about to fall is because our very foundation was created and has been held together by us. Yet our desire, and His desire is to give you a new life. Read this course and be encouraged.
https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/
Jeremia 33:9. And this city shall be to me for a name of joy, for a praise and for a glory, before all the nations of the earth, which shall hear all the good that I do unto them, and shall fear and tremble for all the good and for all the peace that I procure unto it.
Hello, my sweet bride! I went through a similar situation with my husband, but now all the glory is to my Beloved who changed everything in a minute!
The Lord gave me this verse for you:
“Be joyful in hope, patient in affliction, and faithful in prayer.” R1212
The Lord loves to restore our lives and there is nothing impossible for Him!
My dear because you mentioned about your abuse I want to recommend this course “He Healed Me”, Chapter 1. “They Don’t Have It”: https://loveatlast.org/hhm/tdh/, because Our Beloved wants to heal your broken heart and give you a new life!
For the situation you are living with your husband, take heart, if you surrender everything to the Lord, your life will never be the same. Please read this chapter: Chapter 3 “Have Faith”: https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d3-chapter-3-have-faith/ and you will understand why it is so important to trust only in the Lord!
Also, this one Chapter 8 “Won Without a Word”: https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d10-chapter-8-won-without-a-word/, this chapter helped to let go and change the way I responded to my husband´s outbursts!
You are starting a beautiful journey to know the Lord as your everything and as a waymaker!
He will change your life forever!
Hello my dear sister 🤗 l know that right now your situation seems so scary and that you have a lots of fears. I did too. Always remember that “Nothing is impossible for God” and always remember to “Let Go and Let God”. These are 2 very simple things that l remembered that gave me so much peace.
“For with God nothing will be impossible.” Luke 6:37
Jesus looked at them and said, “With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.” Matthew 19:26
I see that you mentioned that you could be more wise and gentle spirit. Read this lesson it helped me so much https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-8-chapter-3-a-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/.
Also be sure to read the lessons mentioned above in the comments because these helped me so much too.
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