My Love is always showing me new truths. When speaking to my sister yesterday, I mentioned that I would be going with my children to my former in-laws. People think it’s so different that they still invite me to attend all their events. I’ve been separated for 4 years and divorced for 3. I do go because they’ve expressed their love they will always have for me and will always want me there. I love them and I don’t have to be without my children. Most importantly, I’ve let go of my former in-laws a long time ago and I’ve always asked my Beloved Husband if it’s His will that I not go then stop them from inviting me. If it is in His will that I go, then let them invite me. They have always invited me.
The reason I stayed and tried to make my marriage to FH work for so many decades was because I never wanted a “divorced lifestyle.” I didn’t want to be without my children for weekends or holidays. So I stayed in a broken marriage for so long. I realized a wonderful truth yesterday that I am divorced, but I do not live a divorced lifestyle. I have my children all the time. I have them for weekends and holidays. And I’m still included with my former in-laws holidays and special events. I am living the abundant life.
After letting go and being obedient to my Husband, He has truly given me the desires of my heart and arranged the best lifestyle for me. A lifestyle that I never thought possible and that nobody around me has ever seen. It’s unheard of to everyone. Only my Beloved Husband can do this. Only He can do the impossible.
Now, I get to be with my children and family for Christmas eve and Christmas day without FH or OW as they are out of town. My Husband has removed them from me. My Husband knows the desires of my heart. That I love being with Him and our children alone. As I hear of several family and friends going on vacations and doing elaborate things for the holidays, in search of happiness, to my surprise, it doesnt bother me. My Beloved has truly changed my heart! This is exactly where I want to be. I have so much joy, love, and peace beyond my and everyone else’s understanding. He keeps blessing me in ways I didn’t expect. I am so in awe of my Loving Husband, and I’m so blessed that I get to hold His face in my hands and look into those beautiful, loving eyes every day.
Dear brides, keep on letting go of everything, seek His face and be obedient to your Heavenly Husband, even when you don’t know why or you don’t feel like it. He is always doing something good. He is arranging the abundant life just perfect for you. He’s always moving you forward from glory to glory, never staying in the same place, taking you deeper and deeper into an amazing relationship and love with Him. 🥰💝
Lieve Ruby,
Het is zo mooi om te lezen dat je geniet van het overvloedige leven met Hem alleen. Hij zorgt zo wonderlijk voor jou.
Mij FH heeft afgelopen week mij aangemoedigd om zijn ouders en familie te blijven bezoeken. Gisteren heb ik een uitnodiging ontvangen van mij voormalige schoonouders om langs te komen met de jaarwisseling, zij hebben ervoor gezorgd dat ik niet geconfronteerd wordt met mijn FH en de OW. Ik ben mijn Hemelse Man dankbaar blij dat Hij op deze manier voor mij zorgt.
Het is precies zoals jij het schrijft, Hij regelt het overvloedige leven dat perfect is voor ons, zodat we dichter bij Hem komen.
Dear Ruby,
It is so beautiful to read that you are enjoying the abundant life with Him alone. He takes such wonderful care of you.
My FH encouraged me last week to continue visiting his parents and family. Yesterday I received an invitation from my former parents-in-law to come over for New Year’s Eve, they ensured that I was not confronted with my FH and the OW. I am grateful to my Heavenly Husband for caring for me in this way.
It’s just as you write it, He arranges the abundant life that is perfect for us so that we come closer to Him.
Hanna, that’s awesome. He really does continue to show us love from every area in out life and every relationship. Where the world would live with broken relationships, we as His bride, are able to truly forgive and be forgiven, to let go and be healed, to love and to be loved 😍 we don’t live like the world lives but only as our Husband has us blessed with so much love, peace and joy 💖
Thank you for sharing precious Ruby, our Darling Heavenly Husband is really the best ever and He really knows the best for us, we can trust our Darling Lord.