Forgiving the offender

The punishmentย inflicted on him by the majority is sufficient.ย Now instead, you ought to forgive and comfort him, so that he will not be overwhelmed by excessive sorrow. 2 Co 2:6-7

Dear Brides

These last two weeks our Beloved have been showing me news ways of understanding forgiveness.

These last two weeks I also went back home, and to visit home it was beautiful, but at same time, my mom kept lamenting what has happening in my marriage, she doesn't understand yet many things , because she was commenting and lamenting all the day, it made me also remember some things, and felt hurting.

I prayed that I must forgive E.H from the bottom of my heart, even dough I have prayed andย  forgave many times, but sometimes I need to forgive almost everyday. God has already illuminated in my mind, concerning forgiveness, like we are saved by grace, that I am already complete in Him, I do not need E.H, but I was going back to the same old mindset.

This time He illuminated another passage for me in Hebrews 12 (Endure hardship as discipline; God is treating you as his children.ย For what children are not disciplined by their father?ย 8ย If you are not disciplinedโ€”and everyone undergoes disciplineโ€”then you are not legitimate, not true sons and daughters at all Hebrews 12:7 ย Having the understanding that it was the Lord who allowed and is allowing the trials, and He like a loving Father is disciplining me, was comforting.

He also reminded me that I needed to singย  sometimes with the busyness I forget to sing and listen to our loveย  songsย  more often,ย  that really changed my heart,ย  and really gave me the strength amidst everything.

I am still going through the same trialsย  but with these new understanding , I can really still sing and dance with our Beloved, He is truly amazing

 

8 thoughts on “Forgiving the offender”

  1. Thank you for sharing your praise today, He truly is wonderful. Thanks for reminding us when we stop to meditate and dance and song it really helps our hearts be lifted up. I took experience this. โค๏ธ

    1. That’s so true Raza, doing that is helping me a lot in my recovery. thank you for sharing

  2. Dear beloved Naomi thank you for sharing. Yes forgiveness is very important. I also learn to forgive over and over, even when things pop up in my mind. And I also experience how to Lord test my heart if I have really forgive someone of my children years and when the name’s where say,I didn’t remember who it is, then it be told who it is, and it didn’t hurt anymore or anger come over me. I wash calm. We need to really forgive, that we can heal and move forward.

    1. That’s so true dear Kristy, thank for your encouragement, there is hope for me, your encouragement has helped a lot.
      thank you

  3. Thank you Naomi, forgiveness is very important because unforgiveness causes us to be locked up in a prison of pain and bitterness. Forgiving our perpetrators will do nothing for them, but it sets us free, and we can start to heal. It’s not easy to forgive, but we can ask our Beloved to help us if we cannot do it. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-8-chapter-3-a-gentle-and-quiet-spirit/ really helped me on my forgiveness journey.

    1. Thank you very much Adina, thank you for encouraging me to move forward, is very encouraging, I am truly being healed, I feel very different now, closer to our beloved ๐Ÿ˜ it’s great, praying for having even more from Him. Glory to Him. Thank for sharing the lesson and your journey.

  4. Thank you for sharing precious Naomi, He is really truly amazing and how wonderful that you can still sing and dance with our Darling Lord. He is really our peace and joy in the midst of any trial. It reminds me of Chapter 7 of the Facing Divorce Course – Peace in the Midst – https://hopeatlast.com/c3/fda-chapter-7-frightened-by-fear/ Our Darling Lord is really our peace in any situation.

  5. Thank you dear Janine, sing the love song, dancing and praying, it’s doing great in my heart ๐Ÿ’–โค๏ธ, He is really working , Glory to Him.

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