💔MM: He still loves me in US

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  1. Speak to your Husband, your Maker, to know what He wants to say to this brokenhearted bride.
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Country:
United States
What language do you speak?
English
I'm here:
Seeking restoration for my current relationship.
What is your current marital status? Please be sure to choose the one that BEST describes your situation.
Divorced.
Have you read the book "How God Can and Will Restore Your Marriage?"
Yes
How did you find our ministry?
You tube
Now, please tell us about your situation and why you have come to us for help and what has your husband/partner said are the main issues or problems he has with you and your relationship?
I am a strong woman of faith. I have been transformed and made new in Christ Jesus. He started transforming my heart after divorce almost 4 years ago.
My husband met another woman who pushed him to divorce me after 6 years of after our wedding ceremony. We were married only on paper prior for 20 years. He instantly regretted it and came home, only for her to convince him to leave 2 weeks later.
That relationship finally failed last year and my husband immediately met someone else and moved in with her last April. He asked her to marry him only a couple months after they met. They are not married, but living together. He took her back home to NY for Thanksgiving and showed off her engagement ring. I am very close to my mother in law and she revealed the information to me.
My husband says that we do well for a few years and then we fall apart. He knows I have changed but says he was not happy in our marriage. He also says he can’t stop thinking about me. He says that he is struggling to move forward because he remembers the good times we had. He says he still loves me, but he is afraid to come back to me because he isn’t ready and wants me to move on. He says he wants me to find someone else who will make me happy because he couldn’t make me happy (lie from the pit of hell).
Please use the space below to simply speak to God, in your own words, pouring your heart out to Him.
Father, only You truly know what is best for me and our children. Only You know how to get through to Frankie’s heart. Only You can bring him to the end of himself. Father, please speak to him in visions and dreams, send him your laborers and encounter him. Reveal YOURSELF to him and lead him back home to me and the kids. In Jesus’s name I ask and pray, amen
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4 thoughts on “💔MM: He still loves me in US”

  1. Minha querida.
    Saiba que quando chegamos aqui no ministério, todas nós chegamos com o coração acelerado e infindáveis perguntas.

    Quando eu lia seu questionário meu Amado me lembrou de Vale de ossos secos (Ezequiel cap37).
    Assim como ele transformou aquele vale de ossos secos, ele também pode transformar seu coração, seu marido, e seu casamento.

    Começo por incentiva lá a ler o livro “ Como Deus pode e vai restaurar seu casamento “ , em seguida faça o curso 1, depois o 2 e assim sucessivamente.

    Um milagre acontecerá, não importa o que as outras pessoas dizem, Ele .. nosso Amado te chama agora para vocês os dois viverem uma transformação inacreditável ❤️🥹

    Lucas 1:37 – porque para Deus NADA é impossível.
    Creia que NADA é impossível 🥰

    Sinta se abraçada de uma outra noiva

  2. Dear Bride, God can restore your marriage, even if you’re the only one pursuing restoration. Just be still and give all your concerns to the One who truly cares and wants to take your pain away.

    I encourage you to keep praying and seeking Him. He will give you the strength and peace you need to get through this difficult time. I know that you are praying for your former husband to come home, but most of the time God takes our loved ones away for a while to bring us closer to Him. He wants to be FIRST in your life. Take Him as your Heavenly Husband https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-2-chapter-2-first-love/. I believe that God is a God of restoration, and I know that He can bring your former husband home.

    Before my restoration the chapter from the Wise Woman Book helped me tremendously. https://hopeatlast.com/c3/day-10-chapter-5-won-without-a-word/ and chapters from the WW are in audio if you need to listen while driving, as I enjoyed.

    I also want to encourage you to please start with Course 1 – https://hopeatlast.com/c1/ and to pour out your heart in the journals and put all your trust in the Lord and allow the Lord to lead you, while He will be the One to bring healing in every area of your life.

    Your Beloved longs to be close to you and He wants to heal you from all the pain you are experiencing right now. Trust that He can heal you and make this relationship a priority first and everything else will come together after. He loves you and He wants to help you through this.

  3. Dear Bride, at some point on this journey I had a hard time taking my eyes of my early husband. I get it – we are taught to find hope in what we see. But instead, we found other things we don’t want to hear as well. Where do you put your hope? “But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.” Jeremiah 17:7
    I am glad that you have read through the restoration book, but can I invite you to journal this Chapter 5?
    https://hopeatlast.com/c1/d5-chapter-5-your-first-love/
    “You have [God has] removed my acquaintances far from me; You have [God has] made me an object of loathing to them. You have [God has] removed lover and friend far from me; my acquaintances are in darkness” (Psalms. 88:8, 18).
    To me that was a turning point where I realized I must put God first before anything. “Delight yourself in the Lord, and He will give you desires of your heart.” Psalms. 37:4

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