I Was the Victim, Helpless and Hopeless


♕ Today's Promise: “There is no fear in love but Perfect Love casts out all fear.” 1 John 4:18

~ Ruby in California

☊ PRAISE Audio

Dear Brides, I am so happy for all of you. It’s such a blessing that you are here. Even if you are going through the toughest most devastating time in your entire life, you’re so blessed to be right where you are right now.

I have been wanting to help others, other women in crisis, to give them this ministry so they may find their Heavenly Husband too. I’ve been praying to My Love that if He wishes for me to help someone that He send her to me. I’ve come across some women who I’ve shared this ministry with but non of them seem to want any help.

I remain at home and do not speak of my situation but when asked I do share what the Lord has done in my heart and in my life. I have spoken to a few women whose EH (earthly husband) left the home, some going through divorce, others recently finding out about an affair. I have shared with these women but non of them are interested in seeking God. Instead they are seeking the things of this world for their comfort, happiness and guidance and they believe they are on the right path.

Each woman is ready to talk but not listen. They are talking about all the things they shouldn’t be talking about. But not listening to what The Lord wants to speak to them. They show the condition of their heart in their words. After so much time they are still in the same pain, if not more, and stuck in the same place of misery and rejection. They mask it with a fun-looking life of going out on the weekends, getting a job, getting procedures done to their physical appearance or even living in the role of the victim or the “good one” and having others praise them for these things.

Brides, that is why I feel so much joy for all of you who are here at this ministry. You have chosen to seek and find your Heavenly Husband. “Ask, and it will be given to you; seek, and you will find; knock, and it will be opened to you.”Matthew 7:7

In the beginning, I was so broken. I was the victim, helpless and hopeless. Praise God that He led me to find this ministry, led me to take all the courses, to keep going and read all the books, lessons and encouragers and started it all by having me read the Restore Your Marriage book first. Praise God that He has led you here as well. I see the path that we could have gone down and it’s such a sad sad way.

“Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make straight your paths.” Proverbs 3:5-6

I wish ALL women would read the Restore Your Marriage book even if they believe they don’t have any marriage problems. It was the first book I read and it really opened my eyes and showed me the truth. I learned so much about myself, my life and what My Heavenly Husband wanted for me. It actually introduced me to my Heavenly Husband and restored me to Him. With each lesson and each book we grew a closer relationship. Now I am SO IN LOVE that I can’t live a day or even a second without Him.

I was so broken but He healed me. I was so lost but He came and found me. I was so helpless but He protects me. I was full of fear but He fought for me. He has shown me a true unconditional and intentional love, peace, joy and forgiveness. He is my true source of everything I need and everything I want my heart to be filled with. He is all that I live for. He is all that I’m chasing now! I have been made new!!

“Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come.” 2 Corinthians 5:17

I hope that all of our Praise Reports here at this ministry have given you some encouragement. Because I know yours have encouraged me through my journey. I have been encouraged to seek My HH more and more and now we are in such a love story that I no longer need anything of this world. I pray the same for all women in crisis.

So Dear Brides, be encouraged to know that you are in the right place. You are exactly where He wants you to be…….with Him, your Heavenly Husband!! Your True Love. Your Faithful Husband that will never leave you and never hurt you. Our Healer and Protector. Your heart is safe with Him.

“There is no fear in love but Perfect Love casts out all fear.” 1 John 4:18

So let go. Lay down your life so you can raise your arms in Praise to The One Who claims you as His!!!

“Love does not insist on its own way.” 1 Corinthians 13: 5

Once you let go of all that you have been holding onto, your arms will then be free to wrap them completely around your Heavenly Husband and feel The Most Precious Love He has for you. 💞

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